"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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phil2015

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Hi Guys,

Wondering to what level any of you would tolerate BS from an attractive woman?

My thought process is that no matter how attractive our GF's are we should still not tolerate any grief or crazy behaviour from them. But its hard when you really dig them
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lizardking82

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Don't put it on a pedestal and you will never have to uninstall the ****in' thing
 

dude99

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Hi Guys,

Wondering to what level any of you would tolerate BS from an attractive woman?

My thought process is that no matter how attractive our GF's are we should still not tolerate any grief or crazy behaviour from them. But its hard when you really dig them
Zero. Never tollerate bad behaviour. All you will do is teach them it is ok to walk all over you. Stop treating them as the prize. Stop following their lead. They must follow your lead. A woman won't respect a guy who puts up with her bs. She will get worse and worse.

Treat all girls the same. The six gets the same treatment as the 9. If you won't put up with BS from a 6 don't put up with thr BS from a 9. Remember when YOU are the prize they won't want to dish put bs because they will be happy to be with you.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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wifehunter

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If it smells like sh!t, is probably sh!t.
 

Skyline

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You have to be willing to walk away when you are no longer having fun. When dating seems like work, it's time to leave. Too many women in the world to tolerate stupid drama in your life.
When you aren't having fun in the dating stage, then she isn't worth it.

I used to work at a shop that worked on cars. I like working on my cars in my spare time so I thought I wouldn't mind it.

I hated it. It became more of a chore than an interest. If you the girl you are seeing becomes a job, then it's time to move on...
 
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