"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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phil2015

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Hi Guys,

Wondering to what level any of you would tolerate BS from an attractive woman?

My thought process is that no matter how attractive our GF's are we should still not tolerate any grief or crazy behaviour from them. But its hard when you really dig them
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lizardking82

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Don't put it on a pedestal and you will never have to uninstall the ****in' thing
 

dude99

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Hi Guys,

Wondering to what level any of you would tolerate BS from an attractive woman?

My thought process is that no matter how attractive our GF's are we should still not tolerate any grief or crazy behaviour from them. But its hard when you really dig them
Zero. Never tollerate bad behaviour. All you will do is teach them it is ok to walk all over you. Stop treating them as the prize. Stop following their lead. They must follow your lead. A woman won't respect a guy who puts up with her bs. She will get worse and worse.

Treat all girls the same. The six gets the same treatment as the 9. If you won't put up with BS from a 6 don't put up with thr BS from a 9. Remember when YOU are the prize they won't want to dish put bs because they will be happy to be with you.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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wifehunter

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If it smells like sh!t, is probably sh!t.
 

Skyline

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You have to be willing to walk away when you are no longer having fun. When dating seems like work, it's time to leave. Too many women in the world to tolerate stupid drama in your life.
When you aren't having fun in the dating stage, then she isn't worth it.

I used to work at a shop that worked on cars. I like working on my cars in my spare time so I thought I wouldn't mind it.

I hated it. It became more of a chore than an interest. If you the girl you are seeing becomes a job, then it's time to move on...
 
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