"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hi Guys,

Wondering to what level any of you would tolerate BS from an attractive woman?

My thought process is that no matter how attractive our GF's are we should still not tolerate any grief or crazy behaviour from them. But its hard when you really dig them
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't put it on a pedestal and you will never have to uninstall the ****in' thing
 
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phil2015 said:
Hi Guys,

Wondering to what level any of you would tolerate BS from an attractive woman?

My thought process is that no matter how attractive our GF's are we should still not tolerate any grief or crazy behaviour from them. But its hard when you really dig them
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Zero. Never tollerate bad behaviour. All you will do is teach them it is ok to walk all over you. Stop treating them as the prize. Stop following their lead. They must follow your lead. A woman won't respect a guy who puts up with her bs. She will get worse and worse.

Treat all girls the same. The six gets the same treatment as the 9. If you won't put up with BS from a 6 don't put up with thr BS from a 9. Remember when YOU are the prize they won't want to dish put bs because they will be happy to be with you.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If it smells like sh!t, is probably sh!t.
 
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RangerMIke said:
You have to be willing to walk away when you are no longer having fun. When dating seems like work, it's time to leave. Too many women in the world to tolerate stupid drama in your life.
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When you aren't having fun in the dating stage, then she isn't worth it.

I used to work at a shop that worked on cars. I like working on my cars in my spare time so I thought I wouldn't mind it.

I hated it. It became more of a chore than an interest. If you the girl you are seeing becomes a job, then it's time to move on...
 
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