"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Attractive Woman Rating Scale in Words

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What the different numbers for rating women mean in words.

10 -
Rock hard Boner
9 - Wow!
8 - Hot!
7 - Nice
6 - Sure
5 - After a few shots
4 - Pass
3 - No way
2 - Hell no
1 - Gross!
0 - Hahaha!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lizardking82

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You see, here's the thing. Sometimes, the woman might be a 6 or a 7 in the scale, but I get a rock hard boner because she talks in a certain erotic way that I just love. I don't think it's all about the looks. At least for me :)
 

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I used to have this scale with my buddy, which loosely relates to a scale. It was a way to label all women

10 - bombshell
9 - gorgeous
8 - beautiful
7 - fine
6 - cute
5 and below - attractive

So, we would talk about women, and we know if either of us said she was "attractive", that was code for ugly. I figure all women are attractive to someone, so why not just label them as attractive. Plus, it sounds much better to women or our friends
 

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My scale is a but weird but it makes sense to me. Most guys scale is '6-7' and she's attractive. But it's just a vague system.

1 - unattractive.

2 - if we are both in the same place and I was drinking and desperate. I would not ask out.

3 - if we are both in the same place and I was drinking. I would not ask out.

4 - attractive but I would only try anything if we were in the same place. I would not ask out but would ask for her snapchat instead of a phone number.

5 - attractive enough for me to ask for a phone number. Would only put half effort in if she reciprocates. Would ask out if she reciprocates.

6 - attractive enough for me to get her phone number. Would put more effort than usual. I would aim for just sex.

7 - everything in '6' and would aim for friends with benefits. Not relationship worthy.

8 - relationship worthy.

9 - would move in together while being together.

10 - marriage.

So basically everything passed a 6 is personality. A girl has to be a 4 in order for me to find her attractive. But realistically speaking, I don't mess with anyone under a 4. I would generally pursue a 6 and she can get promoted to a 10 based on her personality.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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honestly, I don't think in terms of numbers. Either she is attractibe or she isnt.
 

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6> I don't even look at them or think to sexually do anything with them. Only unconscious would do anything with them.
7- Lowest number of attraction for me.Might look at them , depends on their body mostly.With a bottle of vodka I'm in.
8- Things start getting interesting. Would fck them without second thought. Personality isn't really important.Mostly fck buddies or only for ONS. These women are considered for most average guys a 10.
9- Very attractive and rare breed for my tastes. Would push for relationship. Depends on her personality if she's worthy of anything further.
10- I don't believe there is a perfect 10 but lately i have set my eyes on a chick which starts to prove this theory wrong. The perfect woman looks wise . Personality , there might be some compromises . Definitely marriage material .
 

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honestly, I don't think in terms of numbers. Either she is attractibe or she isnt.
There is truth to this too.

Every girl is either a yes or a no in the end.

Personality impacts the list too. Some women become more or less attractive based on their behavior and personality.
 

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Mine is in five levels:
  1. 7+ - fúck with pride, potential LTR material
  2. 5-6 - fúck openly, FWB material
  3. 4 - fúck on the DL, fúckbuddy material
  4. 3 - fúck if hard-up and nobody will find out
  5. 1-2 - untouchable
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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