"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Attractive Woman Rating Scale in Words
- Thread starter Urbanyst
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
lizardking82
Master Don Juan
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Roober
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10 - bombshell
9 - gorgeous
8 - beautiful
7 - fine
6 - cute
5 and below - attractive
So, we would talk about women, and we know if either of us said she was "attractive", that was code for ugly. I figure all women are attractive to someone, so why not just label them as attractive. Plus, it sounds much better to women or our friends
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
11 - masterpiece
Skyline
Master Don Juan
1 - unattractive.
2 - if we are both in the same place and I was drinking and desperate. I would not ask out.
3 - if we are both in the same place and I was drinking. I would not ask out.
4 - attractive but I would only try anything if we were in the same place. I would not ask out but would ask for her snapchat instead of a phone number.
5 - attractive enough for me to ask for a phone number. Would only put half effort in if she reciprocates. Would ask out if she reciprocates.
6 - attractive enough for me to get her phone number. Would put more effort than usual. I would aim for just sex.
7 - everything in '6' and would aim for friends with benefits. Not relationship worthy.
8 - relationship worthy.
9 - would move in together while being together.
10 - marriage.
So basically everything passed a 6 is personality. A girl has to be a 4 in order for me to find her attractive. But realistically speaking, I don't mess with anyone under a 4. I would generally pursue a 6 and she can get promoted to a 10 based on her personality.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
7- Lowest number of attraction for me.Might look at them , depends on their body mostly.With a bottle of vodka I'm in.
8- Things start getting interesting. Would fck them without second thought. Personality isn't really important.Mostly fck buddies or only for ONS. These women are considered for most average guys a 10.
9- Very attractive and rare breed for my tastes. Would push for relationship. Depends on her personality if she's worthy of anything further.
10- I don't believe there is a perfect 10 but lately i have set my eyes on a chick which starts to prove this theory wrong. The perfect woman looks wise . Personality , there might be some compromises . Definitely marriage material .
There is truth to this too.
Every girl is either a yes or a no in the end.
Personality impacts the list too. Some women become more or less attractive based on their behavior and personality.
IBreatheSpears
Senior Don Juan
- 7+ - fúck with pride, potential LTR material
- 5-6 - fúck openly, FWB material
- 4 - fúck on the DL, fúckbuddy material
- 3 - fúck if hard-up and nobody will find out
- 1-2 - untouchable
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.