"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Attractive Woman Rating Scale in Words
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
lizardking82
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Roober
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10 - bombshell
9 - gorgeous
8 - beautiful
7 - fine
6 - cute
5 and below - attractive
So, we would talk about women, and we know if either of us said she was "attractive", that was code for ugly. I figure all women are attractive to someone, so why not just label them as attractive. Plus, it sounds much better to women or our friends
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
11 - masterpiece
Skyline
Master Don Juan
1 - unattractive.
2 - if we are both in the same place and I was drinking and desperate. I would not ask out.
3 - if we are both in the same place and I was drinking. I would not ask out.
4 - attractive but I would only try anything if we were in the same place. I would not ask out but would ask for her snapchat instead of a phone number.
5 - attractive enough for me to ask for a phone number. Would only put half effort in if she reciprocates. Would ask out if she reciprocates.
6 - attractive enough for me to get her phone number. Would put more effort than usual. I would aim for just sex.
7 - everything in '6' and would aim for friends with benefits. Not relationship worthy.
8 - relationship worthy.
9 - would move in together while being together.
10 - marriage.
So basically everything passed a 6 is personality. A girl has to be a 4 in order for me to find her attractive. But realistically speaking, I don't mess with anyone under a 4. I would generally pursue a 6 and she can get promoted to a 10 based on her personality.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
7- Lowest number of attraction for me.Might look at them , depends on their body mostly.With a bottle of vodka I'm in.
8- Things start getting interesting. Would fck them without second thought. Personality isn't really important.Mostly fck buddies or only for ONS. These women are considered for most average guys a 10.
9- Very attractive and rare breed for my tastes. Would push for relationship. Depends on her personality if she's worthy of anything further.
10- I don't believe there is a perfect 10 but lately i have set my eyes on a chick which starts to prove this theory wrong. The perfect woman looks wise . Personality , there might be some compromises . Definitely marriage material .
There is truth to this too.
Every girl is either a yes or a no in the end.
Personality impacts the list too. Some women become more or less attractive based on their behavior and personality.
IBreatheSpears
Senior Don Juan
- 7+ - fúck with pride, potential LTR material
- 5-6 - fúck openly, FWB material
- 4 - fúck on the DL, fúckbuddy material
- 3 - fúck if hard-up and nobody will find out
- 1-2 - untouchable
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.