"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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idoloveromance

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So, I've been wondering why I'm attracted to dark skinned or tan women. there's this girl, she's white. We went out for a week, til I notice that I really don't find her attractive, though my friends and almost everyone at our school find her hot. so I told her that this isn't going to work out, so we called it quits. I just don't get it why I don't get attracted to white girls. Now I'm dating a Malaysian woman who grew up in Singapore. My friends don't really find her attractive.

My dad told me that this isn't normal anymore. or atleast for him, this isn't.

Most girls I dated are black/ tan skinned.
Is it just me, or tan women are really attractive.
What do you think?
 

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it just depends wat you fine tractive and by the looks of it you care watt other people think. SMH

i find darker skin/tanned girls with brunnete or curlish brunnete hair way more atractive than light skin chicks and those are the chicks that actually are more receptive to me also.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

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Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Might consider

LiveFreeX said:
Marry her, she's probably rich. Singapore is a seriously nice place.
I might consider marrying her some day. Her dad's asking me to go to singapore and meet him. I'm actually freaking out. He wants me to go to singapore on the christmas break. But I'm still thinking about it, though her dad already bought a roundtrip ticket for me.
 
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Nothing wrong with finding black/dark-skinned women attractive. If you said fat chicks, you'd have a problem. LOL
 
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