"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So, I've been wondering why I'm attracted to dark skinned or tan women. there's this girl, she's white. We went out for a week, til I notice that I really don't find her attractive, though my friends and almost everyone at our school find her hot. so I told her that this isn't going to work out, so we called it quits. I just don't get it why I don't get attracted to white girls. Now I'm dating a Malaysian woman who grew up in Singapore. My friends don't really find her attractive.

My dad told me that this isn't normal anymore. or atleast for him, this isn't.

Most girls I dated are black/ tan skinned.
Is it just me, or tan women are really attractive.
What do you think?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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it just depends wat you fine tractive and by the looks of it you care watt other people think. SMH

i find darker skin/tanned girls with brunnete or curlish brunnete hair way more atractive than light skin chicks and those are the chicks that actually are more receptive to me also.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Might consider

LiveFreeX said:
Marry her, she's probably rich. Singapore is a seriously nice place.
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I might consider marrying her some day. Her dad's asking me to go to singapore and meet him. I'm actually freaking out. He wants me to go to singapore on the christmas break. But I'm still thinking about it, though her dad already bought a roundtrip ticket for me.
 
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Nothing wrong with finding black/dark-skinned women attractive. If you said fat chicks, you'd have a problem. LOL
 
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