"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So, I've been wondering why I'm attracted to dark skinned or tan women. there's this girl, she's white. We went out for a week, til I notice that I really don't find her attractive, though my friends and almost everyone at our school find her hot. so I told her that this isn't going to work out, so we called it quits. I just don't get it why I don't get attracted to white girls. Now I'm dating a Malaysian woman who grew up in Singapore. My friends don't really find her attractive.

My dad told me that this isn't normal anymore. or atleast for him, this isn't.

Most girls I dated are black/ tan skinned.
Is it just me, or tan women are really attractive.
What do you think?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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it just depends wat you fine tractive and by the looks of it you care watt other people think. SMH

i find darker skin/tanned girls with brunnete or curlish brunnete hair way more atractive than light skin chicks and those are the chicks that actually are more receptive to me also.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Might consider

LiveFreeX said:
Marry her, she's probably rich. Singapore is a seriously nice place.
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I might consider marrying her some day. Her dad's asking me to go to singapore and meet him. I'm actually freaking out. He wants me to go to singapore on the christmas break. But I'm still thinking about it, though her dad already bought a roundtrip ticket for me.
 
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Nothing wrong with finding black/dark-skinned women attractive. If you said fat chicks, you'd have a problem. LOL
 
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