"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Attraction

idoloveromance

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So, I've been wondering why I'm attracted to dark skinned or tan women. there's this girl, she's white. We went out for a week, til I notice that I really don't find her attractive, though my friends and almost everyone at our school find her hot. so I told her that this isn't going to work out, so we called it quits. I just don't get it why I don't get attracted to white girls. Now I'm dating a Malaysian woman who grew up in Singapore. My friends don't really find her attractive.

My dad told me that this isn't normal anymore. or atleast for him, this isn't.

Most girls I dated are black/ tan skinned.
Is it just me, or tan women are really attractive.
What do you think?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Jair213

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it just depends wat you fine tractive and by the looks of it you care watt other people think. SMH

i find darker skin/tanned girls with brunnete or curlish brunnete hair way more atractive than light skin chicks and those are the chicks that actually are more receptive to me also.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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idoloveromance

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Might consider

LiveFreeX said:
Marry her, she's probably rich. Singapore is a seriously nice place.
I might consider marrying her some day. Her dad's asking me to go to singapore and meet him. I'm actually freaking out. He wants me to go to singapore on the christmas break. But I'm still thinking about it, though her dad already bought a roundtrip ticket for me.
 
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Nothing wrong with finding black/dark-skinned women attractive. If you said fat chicks, you'd have a problem. LOL
 
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