"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Attraction Isn't Static

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XANEUS

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I've seen a lot of posts on this board along the lines of 'does she like me?'... WTF. Make her like you. It's not outside of your control. What do we learn techniques for?! To rationalize giving up on hard to get girls, or to get the girls we really want?

I for one don't believe in giving up.

I for one don't believe in settling.

I for one believe in getting the girls I want.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't think you can make anyone like you but I see what your saying. Just expect she likes you and make a move is what your saying.
 
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Kineti[C]harm

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You can make her become attracted to you aslong as she isnt repulsed/dislikes you.
 
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Just a note:

My last 2 girlfriends, I didnt really think of much at first. Then they persisted, they kept calling, and involving me in their lives, and eventually hanging out more and more, then I began to really like them, and eventually fell in love.

I assume its the same way for women. But one important factor is, there was SOME attraction there, but as I got to know them more the attraction Grew to affection.

So yes, You can win ANY girl you want, provided there is some INITIAL attraction.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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So yes, You can win ANY girl you want, provided there is some INITIAL attraction.
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Also, you need the girl to give you a CHANCE. If she has initial attraction, there could be many things that may not get you that "foot in the door". Such as "he's cute but..." "he's to short" or "he's a little overweight" or whatever. You can't knock her socks off without a chance.
 
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