Attraction Isn't Static

XANEUS

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I've seen a lot of posts on this board along the lines of 'does she like me?'... WTF. Make her like you. It's not outside of your control. What do we learn techniques for?! To rationalize giving up on hard to get girls, or to get the girls we really want?

I for one don't believe in giving up.

I for one don't believe in settling.

I for one believe in getting the girls I want.
 

dillin

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I don't think you can make anyone like you but I see what your saying. Just expect she likes you and make a move is what your saying.
 

Kineti[C]harm

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You can make her become attracted to you aslong as she isnt repulsed/dislikes you.
 

ManOMan

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Just a note:

My last 2 girlfriends, I didnt really think of much at first. Then they persisted, they kept calling, and involving me in their lives, and eventually hanging out more and more, then I began to really like them, and eventually fell in love.

I assume its the same way for women. But one important factor is, there was SOME attraction there, but as I got to know them more the attraction Grew to affection.

So yes, You can win ANY girl you want, provided there is some INITIAL attraction.
 

crack_her

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So yes, You can win ANY girl you want, provided there is some INITIAL attraction.
Also, you need the girl to give you a CHANCE. If she has initial attraction, there could be many things that may not get you that "foot in the door". Such as "he's cute but..." "he's to short" or "he's a little overweight" or whatever. You can't knock her socks off without a chance.
 
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