"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Attraction Isn't Static

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XANEUS

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I've seen a lot of posts on this board along the lines of 'does she like me?'... WTF. Make her like you. It's not outside of your control. What do we learn techniques for?! To rationalize giving up on hard to get girls, or to get the girls we really want?

I for one don't believe in giving up.

I for one don't believe in settling.

I for one believe in getting the girls I want.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't think you can make anyone like you but I see what your saying. Just expect she likes you and make a move is what your saying.
 
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You can make her become attracted to you aslong as she isnt repulsed/dislikes you.
 
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Just a note:

My last 2 girlfriends, I didnt really think of much at first. Then they persisted, they kept calling, and involving me in their lives, and eventually hanging out more and more, then I began to really like them, and eventually fell in love.

I assume its the same way for women. But one important factor is, there was SOME attraction there, but as I got to know them more the attraction Grew to affection.

So yes, You can win ANY girl you want, provided there is some INITIAL attraction.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So yes, You can win ANY girl you want, provided there is some INITIAL attraction.
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Also, you need the girl to give you a CHANCE. If she has initial attraction, there could be many things that may not get you that "foot in the door". Such as "he's cute but..." "he's to short" or "he's a little overweight" or whatever. You can't knock her socks off without a chance.
 
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