You have to approach HER! You can't expect to stand there and have the opposite happen.
Sure TONS of guys are approaching them, that means you need to go in there DIFFERENT. Go in there with a strategy.
I've found that with the night game, it's almost IMPOSSIBLE to attract the girl without negging them. I've tried to go in with my indifferent approach, storytelling, etc... which works at the malls. I just get BLOWN OUT during night game when I try this.
I sometimes just open the girls with "oh my god... that purse... you have to be like the 5th person I've seen today with that EXACT same purse.... you are soo original!"
Think of some good ones which you could use. Remember, girls aren't biatches. They're only biatches for the first 5 minutes, which means you need to be an ******* for the first 5-10 minutes to disarm her. Negging is the only way I've found to disarm them, unless you are SUPER good looking or can form an amazing quick connection with them.
When it comes to interacting with the girl, do a FREEZE out or a turnaway/backturn. She says something you don't like, turn your back to her! Do it as a joke, then turn back around and engage her again. Don't go in with rapport, which is what every other guy does. Be indifferent, show little interest. I suggest checking out Mystery Method or RSD... they specialize in this stuff. You can find out basics from fastseduction.
