"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
attracting an attention *****?
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Don Juanabbe
Master Don Juan
Ignore her. Then give her a little attention. Then ignore her. Then give her a little attention. Bust on her. Act like you couldn't give a f*ck and like she ain't so special.Originally posted by FrankWank
we all know, guys give these attention *****s all the attention they need. they dont need to approach guys, because guys will approach them all the time
how do u reverse this, so they can approach you???
Sure TONS of guys are approaching them, that means you need to go in there DIFFERENT. Go in there with a strategy.
I've found that with the night game, it's almost IMPOSSIBLE to attract the girl without negging them. I've tried to go in with my indifferent approach, storytelling, etc... which works at the malls. I just get BLOWN OUT during night game when I try this.
I sometimes just open the girls with "oh my god... that purse... you have to be like the 5th person I've seen today with that EXACT same purse.... you are soo original!"
Think of some good ones which you could use. Remember, girls aren't biatches. They're only biatches for the first 5 minutes, which means you need to be an ******* for the first 5-10 minutes to disarm her. Negging is the only way I've found to disarm them, unless you are SUPER good looking or can form an amazing quick connection with them.
When it comes to interacting with the girl, do a FREEZE out or a turnaway/backturn. She says something you don't like, turn your back to her! Do it as a joke, then turn back around and engage her again. Don't go in with rapport, which is what every other guy does. Be indifferent, show little interest. I suggest checking out Mystery Method or RSD... they specialize in this stuff. You can find out basics from fastseduction.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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You're lucky she did come to you though. Usually, this doesn't happen.Originally posted by Fatality
I got approached by an attention *****. If she really likes you she will come to you if she's more of the aggresive type.
My advice is don't hit the steering wheel because if you do...you'll regret it for the next 2 days.