"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
attracting an attention *****?
- Thread starter FrankWank
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Don Juanabbe
Master Don Juan
Ignore her. Then give her a little attention. Then ignore her. Then give her a little attention. Bust on her. Act like you couldn't give a f*ck and like she ain't so special.Originally posted by FrankWank
we all know, guys give these attention *****s all the attention they need. they dont need to approach guys, because guys will approach them all the time
how do u reverse this, so they can approach you???
Sure TONS of guys are approaching them, that means you need to go in there DIFFERENT. Go in there with a strategy.
I've found that with the night game, it's almost IMPOSSIBLE to attract the girl without negging them. I've tried to go in with my indifferent approach, storytelling, etc... which works at the malls. I just get BLOWN OUT during night game when I try this.
I sometimes just open the girls with "oh my god... that purse... you have to be like the 5th person I've seen today with that EXACT same purse.... you are soo original!"
Think of some good ones which you could use. Remember, girls aren't biatches. They're only biatches for the first 5 minutes, which means you need to be an ******* for the first 5-10 minutes to disarm her. Negging is the only way I've found to disarm them, unless you are SUPER good looking or can form an amazing quick connection with them.
When it comes to interacting with the girl, do a FREEZE out or a turnaway/backturn. She says something you don't like, turn your back to her! Do it as a joke, then turn back around and engage her again. Don't go in with rapport, which is what every other guy does. Be indifferent, show little interest. I suggest checking out Mystery Method or RSD... they specialize in this stuff. You can find out basics from fastseduction.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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You're lucky she did come to you though. Usually, this doesn't happen.Originally posted by Fatality
I got approached by an attention *****. If she really likes you she will come to you if she's more of the aggresive type.
My advice is don't hit the steering wheel because if you do...you'll regret it for the next 2 days.