“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Attracted to a girls personality but not her body?

Skel

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Im confused. I like this girl but I dont think shes hot. Ive been debating on asking her out but I dont feel sexually attracted to her. Is this an affect of lack of sleep or what?
 

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Skel said:
Is this an affect of lack of sleep or what?
No, it's the effect of a lack of options.

Spin more plates.
 

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Yeah I guess so. Ive been working like 70 hours a week and havent been out in months because im so exhausted. Havent met anyone in a long time.
 

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Skel said:
Im confused. I like this girl but I dont think shes hot. Ive been debating on asking her out but I dont feel sexually attracted to her. Is this an affect of lack of sleep or what?
I think she would be categorized as a "friend." Guy's can actually know females that they don't want to bang; strange but true.
 

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Working a lot and no sexual desire sounds way too suspecious.. I think you're just working too much and need a PTO. Paid Time Off..
 

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I like this girl but I dont think shes hot. Ive been debating on asking her out but I dont feel sexually attracted to her.
After encountering tons of women, I ended up feeling like this with just about every woman I met. They had to do a lot more for me than just look good, and I found out how many of them actually did more for me. The answer was not many. The minute many women opened their mouth, I was completely turned off.

Sometimes you need to be stimulated mentally before being stimulated sexually. I'd say take her out and see if she actually works to stimulate you. You'd be surprised at how much effort a woman is willing to put into getting your d1ck to stand up straight. You might also be surprised at WHAT will make your d1ck stand up. Women REALLY DO enjoy a challenge!
 

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Desdinova said:
After encountering tons of women, I ended up feeling like this with just about every woman I met. They had to do a lot more for me than just look good, and I found out how many of them actually did more for me. The answer was not many. The minute many women opened their mouth, I was completely turned off.

Sometimes you need to be stimulated mentally before being stimulated sexually. I'd say take her out and see if she actually works to stimulate you. You'd be surprised at how much effort a woman is willing to put into getting your d1ck to stand up straight. You might also be surprised at WHAT will make your d1ck stand up. Women REALLY DO enjoy a challenge!

I'm with Desdinova here. There's a "looks is all" myth here at Sosuave.
 
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Is she obese and/or deformed?

If not, then stop beatin' it.
 
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Desdinova said:
After encountering tons of women, I ended up feeling like this with just about every woman I met. They had to do a lot more for me than just look good, and I found out how many of them actually did more for me. The answer was not many. The minute many women opened their mouth, I was completely turned off.

Sometimes you need to be stimulated mentally before being stimulated sexually.
This is actually very true for most women, as well. :up:
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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