"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Attracted to a girls personality but not her body?
- Thread starter Skel
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
No, it's the effect of a lack of options.Skel said:
Spin more plates.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I think she would be categorized as a "friend." Guy's can actually know females that they don't want to bang; strange but true.Skel said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Desdinova
Master Don Juan
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After encountering tons of women, I ended up feeling like this with just about every woman I met. They had to do a lot more for me than just look good, and I found out how many of them actually did more for me. The answer was not many. The minute many women opened their mouth, I was completely turned off.
Sometimes you need to be stimulated mentally before being stimulated sexually. I'd say take her out and see if she actually works to stimulate you. You'd be surprised at how much effort a woman is willing to put into getting your d1ck to stand up straight. You might also be surprised at WHAT will make your d1ck stand up. Women REALLY DO enjoy a challenge!
Martin Shabazz Jr.
Don Juan
If not, then stop beatin' it.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
This is actually very true for most women, as well.Desdinova said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.