"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Attn DJs: How many girls have you laid this month?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
gongxia649
Don Juan
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
Being a DJ has nothing to do with how many women you have had sex with this month. Being a DJ isn't a sales job with Quota's for god sake
As a matter of fact I would venture, not say, but venture to say that anyone doing that much partying, talking to women, approaching and ****ing is not close to being a DJ, just a guy who learned some new tricks to get women to have sex with him to make him feel better about himself.
The reason I say that, and I am just going off of me, is I have trouble squeezing in ONE night out a week, let alone entire nights, weeks of partying, approaching and **** like that.
The more I learned, the more I learned what really motiviated me, and it's not women, it's success, which means women are put on the backburner, until other things are taken care of.
And with that said, I still am not lacking in the companionship department, but If I am ****ing 4-5 different women a month (constantly that is) I am not getting anything worth while done in life
However, being a DJ does mean, that when it comes time to find someone to be your partner, not only will be women be eyeing you becuase well... your a DJ, but also you have no problem approaching a woman if need be, know what to say, and don't care if you get rejected, because you don't need anyone else to add value to your life, and she is not attached to your ego.
Half this damn board needs to stop posting and READ.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Serialized3
Master Don Juan
BMW said:
Damn man, that is something worth seriously considering. Good thing I haven't nailed that many girls yet. Better be careful.Chemistry
Master Don Juan
I mean, really... where does this thread sit in helping the countless members in need of self improvement to improve??
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Senior Don Juan
It easily can be tons more but that route has cause a lot of heart break for others. Now I'm just cool, calm and collective cause I know I can do it if the situation calls for it.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.