"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Attn DJs: How many girls have you laid this month?

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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4 including my ex. simply awesome although 1 of em wasnt that great though...
 

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THIS IS PATHETIC

Being a DJ has nothing to do with how many women you have had sex with this month. Being a DJ isn't a sales job with Quota's for god sake

As a matter of fact I would venture, not say, but venture to say that anyone doing that much partying, talking to women, approaching and ****ing is not close to being a DJ, just a guy who learned some new tricks to get women to have sex with him to make him feel better about himself.

The reason I say that, and I am just going off of me, is I have trouble squeezing in ONE night out a week, let alone entire nights, weeks of partying, approaching and **** like that.

The more I learned, the more I learned what really motiviated me, and it's not women, it's success, which means women are put on the backburner, until other things are taken care of.

And with that said, I still am not lacking in the companionship department, but If I am ****ing 4-5 different women a month (constantly that is) I am not getting anything worth while done in life

However, being a DJ does mean, that when it comes time to find someone to be your partner, not only will be women be eyeing you becuase well... your a DJ, but also you have no problem approaching a woman if need be, know what to say, and don't care if you get rejected, because you don't need anyone else to add value to your life, and she is not attached to your ego.

Half this damn board needs to stop posting and READ.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Serialized3 said:
Allright fellas, I've had enough of reading useless posts like some chick whining about how to get some guy to fall in love with her (hint: show up to his house naked with some beer) or some stupid kid's guesswork on evolutionary biology, this one is for the men who go out into the field and game the ladies and get results.

What's your count so far this month? And how did you do it?

I'll go first. My count so far this month is 3. One each week.

1. E was a little hottie from my softball team. Easily an 8. We were always friendly but I could tell she liked me. We hung out a couple times before I decided to go in for the kill. I planned for us to go to the batting cages one day, but they were closed. So I told her we were renting a movie and going back to her house. Pretty soon one thing led to another and I was all cuddled up with her. I used some cold-reading to get into her head (she was saying stuff like "I feel like I've known you all my life") and building emotional connections. Started off with soft little kisses, built up excitment, and didn't even have any LMR.
Unfortunately she freaked out the next morning and told me she was dating some other guy, and she didn't want to be guilted with seeing 2 guys at once. I sort of wanted an LTR with her but that's just the way it is.

2. K is one of my friends. About a 7 but too much makeup. We got really close one night and one thing led to another. Just more proof to all you chodes that you can easily hook up with your female friends. The key to it is to be confident, and make her attracted to you. I'll probably hook up with her more in the future, but she's got a cold right now.

3. J is some chick from work. Also a 7. I could tell she always liked me, so one night after a party I just invited her back to my house. I did some cold reading and sort of figured her out (even though in retrospect I probably didn't need to, but I'm genuinely interested in people) and I just told her to "lie down with me now" which she did, which led to cuddling, which led to kissing, which led to getting it ON. I think we'll hook up again.

So what's the best YOU got?

read this:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=64488
 

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Take the number of days in this month, multiply it by the number of hours and divide by 3.
 

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Another my balls are bigger than yours thread essentially... somewhere for people who've had a good month to boast about their above average figures, and another for those fantasists with fictional stats to post up and try and get some kudos..

I mean, really... where does this thread sit in helping the countless members in need of self improvement to improve??
 

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One girl in fact the same girl.
It easily can be tons more but that route has cause a lot of heart break for others. Now I'm just cool, calm and collective cause I know I can do it if the situation calls for it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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