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Attn DJs: How many girls have you laid this month?

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Allright fellas, I've had enough of reading useless posts like some chick whining about how to get some guy to fall in love with her (hint: show up to his house naked with some beer) or some stupid kid's guesswork on evolutionary biology, this one is for the men who go out into the field and game the ladies and get results.

What's your count so far this month? And how did you do it?

I'll go first. My count so far this month is 3. One each week.

1. E was a little hottie from my softball team. Easily an 8. We were always friendly but I could tell she liked me. We hung out a couple times before I decided to go in for the kill. I planned for us to go to the batting cages one day, but they were closed. So I told her we were renting a movie and going back to her house. Pretty soon one thing led to another and I was all cuddled up with her. I used some cold-reading to get into her head (she was saying stuff like "I feel like I've known you all my life") and building emotional connections. Started off with soft little kisses, built up excitment, and didn't even have any LMR.
Unfortunately she freaked out the next morning and told me she was dating some other guy, and she didn't want to be guilted with seeing 2 guys at once. I sort of wanted an LTR with her but that's just the way it is.

2. K is one of my friends. About a 7 but too much makeup. We got really close one night and one thing led to another. Just more proof to all you chodes that you can easily hook up with your female friends. The key to it is to be confident, and make her attracted to you. I'll probably hook up with her more in the future, but she's got a cold right now.

3. J is some chick from work. Also a 7. I could tell she always liked me, so one night after a party I just invited her back to my house. I did some cold reading and sort of figured her out (even though in retrospect I probably didn't need to, but I'm genuinely interested in people) and I just told her to "lie down with me now" which she did, which led to cuddling, which led to kissing, which led to getting it ON. I think we'll hook up again.

So what's the best YOU got?
 

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I don't base my value on how many desperate girls with low self esteem I manage to have sex with.
 

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Yeah, me either, but seeing as this is a forum dedicated to picking up and hooking up with chicks, I decided to post something to get some decent conversation going.
 

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Serialized3 said:
Yeah, me either, but seeing as this is a forum dedicated to picking up and hooking up with chicks, I decided to post something to get some decent conversation going.
It's about self improvement, it's just that all the fake-PUAs and would be alpha-males came and ****ed this place up.
 

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Lifeforce said:
I don't base my value on how many desperate girls with low self esteem I manage to have sex with.
Translation: hasn't gotten laid in months :)

But yea, to answer your question:: none! My LTR ended just under a month ago, and even though i've been approaching from day one, i haven't really gotten anywhere. The good news is that my fear of approaching is now nearly non-existant (can go direct on chicks in large groups with no anxiety) and my inner game is more solid than ever, but the bad news is that my verbal game has gotten pretty damn rusty. I'm planning to spend the entire day at the mall and on the beach tomorrow to address that. I'm reaaallyy eager to start getting digits left and right like i used to!
 

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Krassus said:
Translation: hasn't gotten laid in months :)
Actually 4 girls wanted to have sex with me sofar this month, I had sex with one of them.
 

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1 girl but I hit it on two different days
But I just came across a nymph-who wants it bad
:)
 

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Lifeforce said:
Actually 4 girls wanted to have sex with me sofar this month, I had sex with one of them.
Nice :) What was wrong with the other 3?
 

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Lifeforce said:
It's about self improvement, it's just that all the fake-PUAs and would be alpha-males came and ****ed this place up.
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Krassus said:
Translation: hasn't gotten laid in months :)

But yea, to answer your question:: none! My LTR ended just under a month ago, and even though i've been approaching from day one, i haven't really gotten anywhere. The good news is that my fear of approaching is now nearly non-existant (can go direct on chicks in large groups with no anxiety) and my inner game is more solid than ever, but the bad news is that my verbal game has gotten pretty damn rusty. I'm planning to spend the entire day at the mall and on the beach tomorrow to address that. I'm reaaallyy eager to start getting digits left and right like i used to!

Yeah man, what I'm really excited about right now is that I just recently, within the past couple months, have solidified and tightened up my mid-game. I've always found that opening and approaching was easy, end-game (kissing to screwing) was easy, but I always floundered my midgame. Building attraction and emotional connections was always hard for me, but I finally figured out how to do it and it has increased my game threefold.

I guess one of the things that also took me the longest time to learn and absorb is that girls my age (early 20's) often times aren't looking for a serious relationship or boyfriend, but rather a friend that they can casually date and not feel weird about fooling around with.

And no, Lifeforce, if you knew me at all you'd know that I'm a romantic and a caring guy at heart. I really get to know and care for these girls before I do anything with them, and I'm honest with them at all times. I just do stuff fast sometimes.
 

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Krassus said:
Nice :) What was wrong with the other 3?
Just didn't like them. IMO it's important with both physical and spiritual connection if one should have sex.

Serialized3:

That wasn't what this page was about when it started six years ago. Sure it was about women too but self improvement was a really big aspect of it. Now people just look for quick fixes to get laid. Sex is a hype, people try to score as many as possible but they are still insecure deep down. And besides most women are worthless in bed, especially if you have sex for the first time with each other.
 

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Lifeforce said:
Just didn't like them. IMO it's important with both physical and spiritual connection if one should have sex.

Serialized3:

That wasn't what this page was about when it started six years ago. Sure it was about women too but self improvement was a really big aspect of it. Now people just look for quick fixes to get laid. Sex is a hype, people try to score as many as possible but they are still insecure deep down. And besides most women are worthless in bed, especially if you have sex for the first time with each other.
I'll agree with you there. There's nothing better than sex with a girl that you have a connection with. Random hookups are overrated, and often times instead of hooking up with some chick I meet, I end up just having a deep conversation with them and getting to know them on a very personal level.

None of these girls are just some skank I picked up from a bar, either.

I would honestly say that the last girl, J, was more of a drunken hookup than anything, but I had known her from before. We actually talked that night and she revealed her insecurities, and she thought it was sweet that I told her that I had been there (depression) and that if there was a way I could show her how to get over it, I would have. And that's the truth. To a lot of girls a genuine, sweet, caring, romantic guy that ISN'T needy or a wuss is one of the hottest things they can get.

My friend K, I really care a lot about her, and I guess us hooking up is just a physical expression of the emotional level that we care about one another.

And then E...well... I'll get really personal here.

I'd been talking to her and hanging out with her for weeks. I had really gotten to know her and I was ridiculously attracted to her. Almost attracted to her enough to be stupid and put her on a pedastal, but not quite. I liked her enough to ignore advances by other chicks at the bar because I only wanted her. Well, anyways, I found out that she had LIED to me the night we hooked up and told me the other guy was just her friend. Then in the morning suddenly she told me they were "kind of dating" and that she just wanted to be my friend, even though she said some garbage about "I feel like I've known you in a past life"...which I had originally bought. And yeah dude, for the first time in a long time I was actually HURT by a girl, because I thought we were so good for each other. I saw reflections of myself in her and reflections of her in myself. The day that she dropped that bomb on me I felt emotionally dead. But I pulled myself together and time and persepective has helped to heal the wounds. I don't think about her anymore when I'm not around her, but when I am, it's hard for me not to feel bad. Sucks.

But, time and perspective heals all wounds. She's messed up, but there's more out there. I'm too young to think about that serious kind of stuff anyways.
 

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Well I have f*cken ALOT girls this month,I have about 2 playboy magazines and I imagine f*cking them everyday with my hanf,lol!!!
 

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3 chances, messed one up badly great girl, missed chance and probably messed up for the future aswell, the other two one has passed bf issues which seem to pop up way too much and she seems depressed, the other one just wont shut the hell up and is dumb as anything.

So this month none, lets see what next month brings up.

p.s on a side note had my testosterone levels checked and they are very very high, no wonder I'm checking out 15 year olds LOL.
 

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None, I gotta do more apporaching.
Blackdragon, you seem pretty cool man. You kind of remind me of me (Young-looking, ethnic, works in a grocery store). PM me if you have any questions on approaching man, you seem to be a fella worth helping out, and I've probably gone through a lot of stuff you've gone through or will go through.
 

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Serialized3 said:
Blackdragon, you seem pretty cool man. You kind of remind me of me (Young-looking, ethnic, works in a grocery store). PM me if you have any questions on approaching man, you seem to be a fella worth helping out, and I\'ve probably gone through a lot of stuff you\'ve gone through or will go through.
Dude let me PM you so you can help me out,is it ok with you???
 

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typical said:
3 chances, messed one up badly great girl, missed chance and probably messed up for the future aswell, the other two one has passed bf issues which seem to pop up way too much and she seems depressed, the other one just wont shut the hell up and is dumb as anything.

So this month none, lets see what next month brings up.

p.s on a side note had my testosterone levels checked and they are very very high, no wonder I\'m checking out 15 year olds LOL.
me too when my testoerone were check the doctors said they are super high!!!
 

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Serialized3, can you go into alittle more detail about your 3rd hookup?
 
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