Maxtro
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I also love it when you mistakenly double post and you wasted another post and you can't delete it.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Attention Admin: Your 10-post rule sucks
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I agree though that some threads are getting hardly anyreplies bacause of the 10 post rule.
PrinceBeavis
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No one needs to be posting that much. We need more reading/learning, and less posting/biatch-like gum flapping.
Most of the stuff you need to know has already been said, you just gotta apply yourself to finding it. The rest, you should be able to figure out yourself.
Most of the stuff you need to know has already been said, you just gotta apply yourself to finding it. The rest, you should be able to figure out yourself.
....IF you read some of the archives they have MORE then 10 posts per person....so we really cant have a heated discussion like the old people in this forum use to do, now I'm not saying someone should take advantage of being able to post more then 10 times but come on make it at least 20 sh1t so you can have some leway.
I think a 20 post limit would be a pretty good compromise and would still keep the post count down, but then again HeartBreakKid wont do anything since he is out getting his 50 hi's hahahahaha...so I doubt anyone will do it.
I think a 20 post limit would be a pretty good compromise and would still keep the post count down, but then again HeartBreakKid wont do anything since he is out getting his 50 hi's hahahahaha...so I doubt anyone will do it.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
DonGorgon
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Funny and sad how this thread was moved to an area where it will not be seen... LOL humans always do this stuff.. get power and start messing around with things.. OH well..
War Against Betaism
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There should be a way to increase your post limit count. I say that the higher your reputation is, the more you are able to post. If you have a lot of reputation points then what you have to say actually matters. It is a good system to filter out unnecessary posts but it also punishes quality posts; a new feature needs to be added to eliminate the second problem.
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Those elitists saying "ooooohhhh that's nice it will prevent the losers from wasting their lives on these forums!" are the worst.
That's so insane, on most forums regulars accumulate a post count that's much, much, MUCH higher than the regulars with the highest post counts have here. People just use this site to kill random boring moments in the day which will always exist.
Ohhhhh no, someone will waste his life away if for one or two days he actually enters an heated debate and makes a few dozens of posts in a short time period! It's the end of the world as we know it!
That's so insane, on most forums regulars accumulate a post count that's much, much, MUCH higher than the regulars with the highest post counts have here. People just use this site to kill random boring moments in the day which will always exist.
Ohhhhh no, someone will waste his life away if for one or two days he actually enters an heated debate and makes a few dozens of posts in a short time period! It's the end of the world as we know it!
Bible_Belt
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Interestingly enough...there is not a sticky out there letting members know (especially the new ones or the ones that have not post in a while) about the rule.
I was gone for over a week and saw several threads that I wanted to contribute. But ended up posting only ONE TIME yesterday, because was concerned I would miss a good post in the unread threads.
I was gone for over a week and saw several threads that I wanted to contribute. But ended up posting only ONE TIME yesterday, because was concerned I would miss a good post in the unread threads.
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This.PrinceBeavis said:
DonGorgon
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Exactly...Kaim Argonar said:
DonGorgon
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NO! he had a power trip and decided that he needed an ego boost so he reduced the level of freedom... if his board was not popular he would never have done this.. Typical human power trip:cuss:reset said:
penkitten
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i feel the same way, im too scared to reply because i may want to reply in other threads through out the night....Latinoman said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
My Name is Nobody
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Just create a new handle.. you could be Latinodude.Latinoman said:
ThunderMaverick
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People could always post in that "other" forum. :yes:
TheVirtualMind
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*Points you in the direction of a half dozen pages ago where we specifically stated that we have no control over that.* :kick:DonGorgon said:
War Against Betaism
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One of the reasons why this rule was implemented was because of the Anything Else forums. Admin believed people spent too much of their time there instead of going to what the main site was made for. Though this is very common for any site and it is completely understandable. To discuss various subjects with people with a common characteristic (in our case, picking up women), it gives us that sense of rapport already. If the Anything Else forums branched off to its own site as a universal forums for discussions, I doubt many people here would migrate and instead remain here. That is because we are all tied down together by something and to restrict off topic discussions this with the post limit rule gives it a school type of atmosphere where we are not allowed to talk to our friends during class. Things like these can't be helped because it is in our nature, and to eliminate this makes posting on sosuave almost a chore.
DonGorgon
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OK so the mods are NOT behind this travesty .. its the site owner playing these dictator games... booooooooo to him:cuss:TheVirtualMind said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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