Maxtro
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I also love it when you mistakenly double post and you wasted another post and you can't delete it.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Attention Admin: Your 10-post rule sucks
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I agree though that some threads are getting hardly anyreplies bacause of the 10 post rule.
PrinceBeavis
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No one needs to be posting that much. We need more reading/learning, and less posting/biatch-like gum flapping.
Most of the stuff you need to know has already been said, you just gotta apply yourself to finding it. The rest, you should be able to figure out yourself.
Most of the stuff you need to know has already been said, you just gotta apply yourself to finding it. The rest, you should be able to figure out yourself.
....IF you read some of the archives they have MORE then 10 posts per person....so we really cant have a heated discussion like the old people in this forum use to do, now I'm not saying someone should take advantage of being able to post more then 10 times but come on make it at least 20 sh1t so you can have some leway.
I think a 20 post limit would be a pretty good compromise and would still keep the post count down, but then again HeartBreakKid wont do anything since he is out getting his 50 hi's hahahahaha...so I doubt anyone will do it.
I think a 20 post limit would be a pretty good compromise and would still keep the post count down, but then again HeartBreakKid wont do anything since he is out getting his 50 hi's hahahahaha...so I doubt anyone will do it.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
DonGorgon
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Funny and sad how this thread was moved to an area where it will not be seen... LOL humans always do this stuff.. get power and start messing around with things.. OH well..
War Against Betaism
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There should be a way to increase your post limit count. I say that the higher your reputation is, the more you are able to post. If you have a lot of reputation points then what you have to say actually matters. It is a good system to filter out unnecessary posts but it also punishes quality posts; a new feature needs to be added to eliminate the second problem.
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Those elitists saying "ooooohhhh that's nice it will prevent the losers from wasting their lives on these forums!" are the worst.
That's so insane, on most forums regulars accumulate a post count that's much, much, MUCH higher than the regulars with the highest post counts have here. People just use this site to kill random boring moments in the day which will always exist.
Ohhhhh no, someone will waste his life away if for one or two days he actually enters an heated debate and makes a few dozens of posts in a short time period! It's the end of the world as we know it!
That's so insane, on most forums regulars accumulate a post count that's much, much, MUCH higher than the regulars with the highest post counts have here. People just use this site to kill random boring moments in the day which will always exist.
Ohhhhh no, someone will waste his life away if for one or two days he actually enters an heated debate and makes a few dozens of posts in a short time period! It's the end of the world as we know it!
Bible_Belt
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Interestingly enough...there is not a sticky out there letting members know (especially the new ones or the ones that have not post in a while) about the rule.
I was gone for over a week and saw several threads that I wanted to contribute. But ended up posting only ONE TIME yesterday, because was concerned I would miss a good post in the unread threads.
I was gone for over a week and saw several threads that I wanted to contribute. But ended up posting only ONE TIME yesterday, because was concerned I would miss a good post in the unread threads.
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This.PrinceBeavis said:
DonGorgon
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Exactly...Kaim Argonar said:
DonGorgon
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NO! he had a power trip and decided that he needed an ego boost so he reduced the level of freedom... if his board was not popular he would never have done this.. Typical human power trip:cuss:reset said:
penkitten
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i feel the same way, im too scared to reply because i may want to reply in other threads through out the night....Latinoman said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
My Name is Nobody
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Just create a new handle.. you could be Latinodude.Latinoman said:
ThunderMaverick
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People could always post in that "other" forum. :yes:
TheVirtualMind
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*Points you in the direction of a half dozen pages ago where we specifically stated that we have no control over that.* :kick:DonGorgon said:
War Against Betaism
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One of the reasons why this rule was implemented was because of the Anything Else forums. Admin believed people spent too much of their time there instead of going to what the main site was made for. Though this is very common for any site and it is completely understandable. To discuss various subjects with people with a common characteristic (in our case, picking up women), it gives us that sense of rapport already. If the Anything Else forums branched off to its own site as a universal forums for discussions, I doubt many people here would migrate and instead remain here. That is because we are all tied down together by something and to restrict off topic discussions this with the post limit rule gives it a school type of atmosphere where we are not allowed to talk to our friends during class. Things like these can't be helped because it is in our nature, and to eliminate this makes posting on sosuave almost a chore.
DonGorgon
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OK so the mods are NOT behind this travesty .. its the site owner playing these dictator games... booooooooo to him:cuss:TheVirtualMind said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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