"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Attention Admin: Your 10-post rule sucks

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I also love it when you mistakenly double post and you wasted another post and you can't delete it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'll have to side with the mods on this issue. Think about what you want to say, keep posting in bold print and your messages will get across...
 

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No one needs to be posting that much. We need more reading/learning, and less posting/biatch-like gum flapping.

Most of the stuff you need to know has already been said, you just gotta apply yourself to finding it. The rest, you should be able to figure out yourself.
 

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....IF you read some of the archives they have MORE then 10 posts per person....so we really cant have a heated discussion like the old people in this forum use to do, now I'm not saying someone should take advantage of being able to post more then 10 times but come on make it at least 20 sh1t so you can have some leway.

I think a 20 post limit would be a pretty good compromise and would still keep the post count down, but then again HeartBreakKid wont do anything since he is out getting his 50 hi's hahahahaha...so I doubt anyone will do it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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One key of being a Don Juan is patience and maturity. Consider this daily limit as a test.
 

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There should be a way to increase your post limit count. I say that the higher your reputation is, the more you are able to post. If you have a lot of reputation points then what you have to say actually matters. It is a good system to filter out unnecessary posts but it also punishes quality posts; a new feature needs to be added to eliminate the second problem.
 

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Those elitists saying "ooooohhhh that's nice it will prevent the losers from wasting their lives on these forums!" are the worst.

That's so insane, on most forums regulars accumulate a post count that's much, much, MUCH higher than the regulars with the highest post counts have here. People just use this site to kill random boring moments in the day which will always exist.

Ohhhhh no, someone will waste his life away if for one or two days he actually enters an heated debate and makes a few dozens of posts in a short time period! It's the end of the world as we know it!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Interestingly enough...there is not a sticky out there letting members know (especially the new ones or the ones that have not post in a while) about the rule.

I was gone for over a week and saw several threads that I wanted to contribute. But ended up posting only ONE TIME yesterday, because was concerned I would miss a good post in the unread threads.
 

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Kaim Argonar said:
Those elitists saying "ooooohhhh that's nice it will prevent the losers from wasting their lives on these forums!" are the worst.

That's so insane, on most forums regulars accumulate a post count that's much, much, MUCH higher than the regulars with the highest post counts have here. People just use this site to kill random boring moments in the day which will always exist.

Ohhhhh no, someone will waste his life away if for one or two days he actually enters an heated debate and makes a few dozens of posts in a short time period! It's the end of the world as we know it!
Exactly...
 

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No guys it's not about money, remember the announcement? It's about quality over quantity. One day he was looking at the site and decided the quality had to go up.

Anyway, I've already said I'd even pay to have a premium membership. A lot of guys would.

Anyone notice that the PM box can store more messages now?
NO! he had a power trip and decided that he needed an ego boost so he reduced the level of freedom... if his board was not popular he would never have done this.. Typical human power trip:cuss:
 

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Latinoman said:
Interestingly enough...there is not a sticky out there letting members know (especially the new ones or the ones that have not post in a while) about the rule.

I was gone for over a week and saw several threads that I wanted to contribute. But ended up posting only ONE TIME yesterday, because was concerned I would miss a good post in the unread threads.
i feel the same way, im too scared to reply because i may want to reply in other threads through out the night....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Latinoman said:
Interestingly enough...there is not a sticky out there letting members know (especially the new ones or the ones that have not post in a while) about the rule.

I was gone for over a week and saw several threads that I wanted to contribute. But ended up posting only ONE TIME yesterday, because was concerned I would miss a good post in the unread threads.
Just create a new handle.. you could be Latinodude.
 

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DonGorgon said:
Why is it that when forums get popular these odd power moves always happen by mods? WHY?
*Points you in the direction of a half dozen pages ago where we specifically stated that we have no control over that.* :kick:
 

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One of the reasons why this rule was implemented was because of the Anything Else forums. Admin believed people spent too much of their time there instead of going to what the main site was made for. Though this is very common for any site and it is completely understandable. To discuss various subjects with people with a common characteristic (in our case, picking up women), it gives us that sense of rapport already. If the Anything Else forums branched off to its own site as a universal forums for discussions, I doubt many people here would migrate and instead remain here. That is because we are all tied down together by something and to restrict off topic discussions this with the post limit rule gives it a school type of atmosphere where we are not allowed to talk to our friends during class. Things like these can't be helped because it is in our nature, and to eliminate this makes posting on sosuave almost a chore.
 

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TheVirtualMind said:
*Points you in the direction of a half dozen pages ago where we specifically stated that we have no control over that.* :kick:
OK so the mods are NOT behind this travesty .. its the site owner playing these dictator games... booooooooo to him:cuss:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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