mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
are we exaggerating?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
At what point does it make SENSE to get married?
- Thread starter jnMissouri
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
DreamAgain
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It makes sense to get married in your mid 20s with a similarly aged or slightly younger wife.
You will have children earlier in the prime of your life, which means you will be younger when they get older, and be able to spend more quality time with them.
You will save precious time circling the wagons at bars, clubs, and other places where the odds of finding a potential future wife are very slim. You will be sacrificing your health, wallet, and time going to these places often.
You will also waste time on online dating which has a very poor return on investment.
You will be able to establish roots earlier, build equity earlier, and most importantly, enjoy your precious youth with a person you love.
You will have children earlier in the prime of your life, which means you will be younger when they get older, and be able to spend more quality time with them.
You will save precious time circling the wagons at bars, clubs, and other places where the odds of finding a potential future wife are very slim. You will be sacrificing your health, wallet, and time going to these places often.
You will also waste time on online dating which has a very poor return on investment.
You will be able to establish roots earlier, build equity earlier, and most importantly, enjoy your precious youth with a person you love.
FlexpertHamilton
Master Don Juan
When you're 45-50
BackInTheGame78
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Why are you assuming that if you get married you will have children right away?
Wrong assumption. People are waiting longer and longer to have kids these days, not having them immediately after getting married.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I sort of suspected this. Some couples can date for decades but as soon as they get married they dont last 5 yrs. There is something suffocating about marriage.