mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
are we exaggerating?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
At what point does it make SENSE to get married?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
DreamAgain
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It makes sense to get married in your mid 20s with a similarly aged or slightly younger wife.
You will have children earlier in the prime of your life, which means you will be younger when they get older, and be able to spend more quality time with them.
You will save precious time circling the wagons at bars, clubs, and other places where the odds of finding a potential future wife are very slim. You will be sacrificing your health, wallet, and time going to these places often.
You will also waste time on online dating which has a very poor return on investment.
You will be able to establish roots earlier, build equity earlier, and most importantly, enjoy your precious youth with a person you love.
You will have children earlier in the prime of your life, which means you will be younger when they get older, and be able to spend more quality time with them.
You will save precious time circling the wagons at bars, clubs, and other places where the odds of finding a potential future wife are very slim. You will be sacrificing your health, wallet, and time going to these places often.
You will also waste time on online dating which has a very poor return on investment.
You will be able to establish roots earlier, build equity earlier, and most importantly, enjoy your precious youth with a person you love.
FlexpertHamilton
Master Don Juan
When you're 45-50
BackInTheGame78
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Why are you assuming that if you get married you will have children right away?
Wrong assumption. People are waiting longer and longer to have kids these days, not having them immediately after getting married.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I sort of suspected this. Some couples can date for decades but as soon as they get married they dont last 5 yrs. There is something suffocating about marriage.