I was in the gym today and I see this girl that just does it for me. I mean girls turn me on, but something about this girls body, skin tone etc. just amazes me. Anyway I told myself that if I ever saw her again I would introduce myself just to build some rapart with her. Well I saw her today and wanted to keep it simple. She was in between sets and I said "hey how are you? i'm clay, i've seen you in here a lot when i'm here and i wanted to introduce myself." She responded with a high, a smile and her name. i went back to my area on the other side of the gym. Ten minutes later I look up and she's walking towards me and asks if i'm a student(college town) i replied no, i work for the company that owns the gym. (i'm 28, she looks to be about 23). i asked her, she said student. i said in what, she told me that she was about to graduate and her plans after etc. she then eluded that she would be coming back weekends, then she said she had to go to her spinning class. i ended it with a "hey, did you have good day?" which i got a big smile and yes from. I'm going to get her number if i see her again. i think it will be easy since she approached me. there has to be some interest on her part.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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trust me man, ive been around and 99% of the time when a girl iniaties stuff like that is because she is worried YOU wont ask her out or for her number so she feels she needs to start a covno with you
take this stuff as a greeen light and be AGRESSIVE (should have gotten the number that day)... you are 28 you should realise you dont need to keep wasting time and play what if? maybe? next time? games like that, just go for it and if it doesnt work out GOOD you can move on to the next girl
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take this stuff as a greeen light and be AGRESSIVE (should have gotten the number that day)... you are 28 you should realise you dont need to keep wasting time and play what if? maybe? next time? games like that, just go for it and if it doesnt work out GOOD you can move on to the next girl
BAM I AM AWESOME
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soon enough youll find that awkward situations are only awkward if you make them to be... personally i kinda like them casue when i see the other person acting all shy/embarassed and im acting like nothing happened its funny
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yep cletus. yer right on the money.Originally posted by CLOONEY
Yep, excellent. When a girl approaches and asks you questions about your personal life, not just small chit chat, it means she wants your azz bad. Have fun with this one
point is when a chick doesn't dig you she's not gunna give you the time o' day. well maybe just the time but thats about it.
although i think you could have easily closed her that day i don't think you made a mistake by waiting. somtimes a good connection is worth more when it comes to having her not flaking on you later when you ask her out on a date.
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She is wondering "Why did this guy introduce himself to me and not go any further? Let me go give him a hint and see if he has the balls to ask me for my number!"
You did the hard part! What kept you from doing the easy part?
You did the hard part! What kept you from doing the easy part?
E-Z Rider
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lol. You're right on.
Go for it- and hope you didn't screw up too badly by not getting the #. But be cool, and just take it as a lesson for next time. You're money- -E-Z
thanks guys, i'm sure i can pick it up when i see her again. funny thing though before i introduced myself she never made eye contact with me before. also, she told me that she "goes to cycling class a lot" would it be a bad idea to go to that class sometime?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.