I was in the gym today and I see this girl that just does it for me. I mean girls turn me on, but something about this girls body, skin tone etc. just amazes me. Anyway I told myself that if I ever saw her again I would introduce myself just to build some rapart with her. Well I saw her today and wanted to keep it simple. She was in between sets and I said "hey how are you? i'm clay, i've seen you in here a lot when i'm here and i wanted to introduce myself." She responded with a high, a smile and her name. i went back to my area on the other side of the gym. Ten minutes later I look up and she's walking towards me and asks if i'm a student(college town) i replied no, i work for the company that owns the gym. (i'm 28, she looks to be about 23). i asked her, she said student. i said in what, she told me that she was about to graduate and her plans after etc. she then eluded that she would be coming back weekends, then she said she had to go to her spinning class. i ended it with a "hey, did you have good day?" which i got a big smile and yes from. I'm going to get her number if i see her again. i think it will be easy since she approached me. there has to be some interest on her part.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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white_hype
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trust me man, ive been around and 99% of the time when a girl iniaties stuff like that is because she is worried YOU wont ask her out or for her number so she feels she needs to start a covno with you
take this stuff as a greeen light and be AGRESSIVE (should have gotten the number that day)... you are 28 you should realise you dont need to keep wasting time and play what if? maybe? next time? games like that, just go for it and if it doesnt work out GOOD you can move on to the next girl
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take this stuff as a greeen light and be AGRESSIVE (should have gotten the number that day)... you are 28 you should realise you dont need to keep wasting time and play what if? maybe? next time? games like that, just go for it and if it doesnt work out GOOD you can move on to the next girl
BAM I AM AWESOME
white_hype
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soon enough youll find that awkward situations are only awkward if you make them to be... personally i kinda like them casue when i see the other person acting all shy/embarassed and im acting like nothing happened its funny
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
yep cletus. yer right on the money.Originally posted by CLOONEY
Yep, excellent. When a girl approaches and asks you questions about your personal life, not just small chit chat, it means she wants your azz bad. Have fun with this one
point is when a chick doesn't dig you she's not gunna give you the time o' day. well maybe just the time but thats about it.
although i think you could have easily closed her that day i don't think you made a mistake by waiting. somtimes a good connection is worth more when it comes to having her not flaking on you later when you ask her out on a date.
PuertoRican_Lover
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She is wondering "Why did this guy introduce himself to me and not go any further? Let me go give him a hint and see if he has the balls to ask me for my number!"
You did the hard part! What kept you from doing the easy part?
You did the hard part! What kept you from doing the easy part?
E-Z Rider
Master Don Juan
lol. You're right on.
Go for it- and hope you didn't screw up too badly by not getting the #. But be cool, and just take it as a lesson for next time. You're money- -E-Z
thanks guys, i'm sure i can pick it up when i see her again. funny thing though before i introduced myself she never made eye contact with me before. also, she told me that she "goes to cycling class a lot" would it be a bad idea to go to that class sometime?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.