"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Asking the girl to come to my house and find herself if she likes me or not.

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I am not a social person. But I attract a lots of girls because of my skills, intelligence and above average finance. I can't get past the attraction phase.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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andreihaha said:
For me, no contact would work if I wouldn't still want to get inside her. As long as you get pu55y from someone else, it's fine( but it doesn't seem to be your current situation).

I prefer a more polarizing method: just telling her: "I have a rule, I never have have sex with girls I work with. But we're not work buddies any more, are we?"
Works better in person, but probably as well in text if you don't see her again. If she responds positively, you're free to bang her, if not, you'll know she's not worth your interest. Sounds like a win/win to me.
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Lmao only a weirdo would say that or a high schooler. The guy just needs to invite her and chill.
 
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malz1 said:
Lmao only a weirdo would say that or a high schooler. The guy just needs to invite her and chill.
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Doesn't matter too much anyway, he said the woman is married. Why go out with random guy from work no.7?

From my experience, it doesn't really matter how you put it, you just make your intentions clear. If she's interested, she will go out with you anyway, if not, she'll find an excuse no matter how good the "pick up line" is.
 
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andreihaha said:
Doesn't matter too much anyway, he said the woman is married. Why go out with random guy from work no.7?

From my experience, it doesn't really matter how you put it, you just make your intentions clear. If she's interested, she will go out with you anyway, if not, she'll find an excuse no matter how good the "pick up line" is.
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It really does matter in my experience. The line between interested and uninterested can often be thin and it could be seen as "one more thing off about him." Guys pls don't ever use that line lol...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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malz1 said:
It really does matter in my experience. The line between interested and uninterested can often be thin and it could be seen as "one more thing off about him." Guys pls don't ever use that line lol...
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You don't really want to be on that thin line. But AMS calls it being on the fence and feels its 50-60% of the game.
 
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Danger said:
I have to say, this entire thread makes me cringe. But cultures can be very different and my experience in my travels to India were fully professional.
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Agreed. This thread is the classic case of the woman isnt sexually interested and the guy has 50 scenarios in his mind as to why and how to change her mind.

She isnt interested in fvcking him. And when thats the case, its deuces. Dust in the wind.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Pajeet Singh said:
I have this girl in my office with whom I have had on and off relationship. We never had sex but I have made it clear that it is the only thing between us to deepen our bonding. She has her own constraints. I am leaving the job. Tomorrow it will be my last day. We are in silent treatment but we still see each other. I am going to ask her that if wants to have any future association after I leave the place she will have to come to my house and find it herself if she will like me or not. This is the only way I can trust her. We had done a lot of push and pull and it was her excuses mostly. But then I never complained because I knew her limit. She will talk again but whenever I reach the point of making love she will stop with some excuses. This is the end. She has to break the limits or else I am pretty much tired of cat and mouse.

What do you guys think? Can I add something do something completely different? I have work. I cannot play games anymore.
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Get it over with. Just tell her you want to **** her and see where it might lead. She will **** you or she won't. Seriously. If you don't take charge and force her to make a decision she'll **** around forever. She probably wants you to be her boyfriend and pay her bills while some other dude who makes her wet is digging her guts out. Quit ****ing around. If she can't or won't give you what you want find one who will. There are plenty of women out there. Grow some balls and find them.
 
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