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I am not a social person. But I attract a lots of girls because of my skills, intelligence and above average finance. I can't get past the attraction phase.
 

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For me, no contact would work if I wouldn't still want to get inside her. As long as you get pu55y from someone else, it's fine( but it doesn't seem to be your current situation).

I prefer a more polarizing method: just telling her: "I have a rule, I never have have sex with girls I work with. But we're not work buddies any more, are we?"
Works better in person, but probably as well in text if you don't see her again. If she responds positively, you're free to bang her, if not, you'll know she's not worth your interest. Sounds like a win/win to me.
Lmao only a weirdo would say that or a high schooler. The guy just needs to invite her and chill.
 

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Lmao only a weirdo would say that or a high schooler. The guy just needs to invite her and chill.
Doesn't matter too much anyway, he said the woman is married. Why go out with random guy from work no.7?

From my experience, it doesn't really matter how you put it, you just make your intentions clear. If she's interested, she will go out with you anyway, if not, she'll find an excuse no matter how good the "pick up line" is.
 
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Doesn't matter too much anyway, he said the woman is married. Why go out with random guy from work no.7?

From my experience, it doesn't really matter how you put it, you just make your intentions clear. If she's interested, she will go out with you anyway, if not, she'll find an excuse no matter how good the "pick up line" is.
It really does matter in my experience. The line between interested and uninterested can often be thin and it could be seen as "one more thing off about him." Guys pls don't ever use that line lol...
 

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It really does matter in my experience. The line between interested and uninterested can often be thin and it could be seen as "one more thing off about him." Guys pls don't ever use that line lol...
You don't really want to be on that thin line. But AMS calls it being on the fence and feels its 50-60% of the game.
 

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I have to say, this entire thread makes me cringe. But cultures can be very different and my experience in my travels to India were fully professional.
 

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Pajeet, have you ever kissed her?

And tell us what happened now that you have left.
 

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I have to say, this entire thread makes me cringe. But cultures can be very different and my experience in my travels to India were fully professional.
Agreed. This thread is the classic case of the woman isnt sexually interested and the guy has 50 scenarios in his mind as to why and how to change her mind.

She isnt interested in fvcking him. And when thats the case, its deuces. Dust in the wind.
 
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Agreed. This thread is the classic case of the woman isnt sexually interested and the guy has 50 scenarios in his mind as to why and how to change her mind.

She isnt interested in fvcking him. And when thats the case, its deuces. Dust in the wind.
Yeah that basically sums it up.

My read on the whole situation is that everything has happened only in the OPs head.

Looking at this part here

I have this girl in my office with whom I have had on and off relationship. We never had sex but I have made it clear that it is the only thing between us to deepen our bonding.
It makes it sound like they have dated on and off, when in reality she is married and they were just friends at the office.

He, not realizing this is all in his head, keeps pushing right up to telling her they need to have sex when they never even kissed or went on an actual date.

This is almost stalker level insanity from what I can tell. Not trying to be hurtful here but we need to help this guy, a lot.
 
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