"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Asking the girl to come to my house and find herself if she likes me or not.

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I am not a social person. But I attract a lots of girls because of my skills, intelligence and above average finance. I can't get past the attraction phase.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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andreihaha said:
For me, no contact would work if I wouldn't still want to get inside her. As long as you get pu55y from someone else, it's fine( but it doesn't seem to be your current situation).

I prefer a more polarizing method: just telling her: "I have a rule, I never have have sex with girls I work with. But we're not work buddies any more, are we?"
Works better in person, but probably as well in text if you don't see her again. If she responds positively, you're free to bang her, if not, you'll know she's not worth your interest. Sounds like a win/win to me.
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Lmao only a weirdo would say that or a high schooler. The guy just needs to invite her and chill.
 
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malz1 said:
Lmao only a weirdo would say that or a high schooler. The guy just needs to invite her and chill.
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Doesn't matter too much anyway, he said the woman is married. Why go out with random guy from work no.7?

From my experience, it doesn't really matter how you put it, you just make your intentions clear. If she's interested, she will go out with you anyway, if not, she'll find an excuse no matter how good the "pick up line" is.
 
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andreihaha said:
Doesn't matter too much anyway, he said the woman is married. Why go out with random guy from work no.7?

From my experience, it doesn't really matter how you put it, you just make your intentions clear. If she's interested, she will go out with you anyway, if not, she'll find an excuse no matter how good the "pick up line" is.
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It really does matter in my experience. The line between interested and uninterested can often be thin and it could be seen as "one more thing off about him." Guys pls don't ever use that line lol...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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malz1 said:
It really does matter in my experience. The line between interested and uninterested can often be thin and it could be seen as "one more thing off about him." Guys pls don't ever use that line lol...
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You don't really want to be on that thin line. But AMS calls it being on the fence and feels its 50-60% of the game.
 
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Danger said:
I have to say, this entire thread makes me cringe. But cultures can be very different and my experience in my travels to India were fully professional.
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Agreed. This thread is the classic case of the woman isnt sexually interested and the guy has 50 scenarios in his mind as to why and how to change her mind.

She isnt interested in fvcking him. And when thats the case, its deuces. Dust in the wind.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Pajeet Singh said:
I have this girl in my office with whom I have had on and off relationship. We never had sex but I have made it clear that it is the only thing between us to deepen our bonding. She has her own constraints. I am leaving the job. Tomorrow it will be my last day. We are in silent treatment but we still see each other. I am going to ask her that if wants to have any future association after I leave the place she will have to come to my house and find it herself if she will like me or not. This is the only way I can trust her. We had done a lot of push and pull and it was her excuses mostly. But then I never complained because I knew her limit. She will talk again but whenever I reach the point of making love she will stop with some excuses. This is the end. She has to break the limits or else I am pretty much tired of cat and mouse.

What do you guys think? Can I add something do something completely different? I have work. I cannot play games anymore.
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Get it over with. Just tell her you want to **** her and see where it might lead. She will **** you or she won't. Seriously. If you don't take charge and force her to make a decision she'll **** around forever. She probably wants you to be her boyfriend and pay her bills while some other dude who makes her wet is digging her guts out. Quit ****ing around. If she can't or won't give you what you want find one who will. There are plenty of women out there. Grow some balls and find them.
 
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