"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Asking out
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- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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u get her number then u tell her to join u at x at y time and bring z if necessary.
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and then she says yes, and then u say----- wtf do u say then?
GREAT now lets go on a date ? lol
its pretty damn obvious u are asking her out when u ask her to join u alone at so n so.
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ok, never looked at it that way, and it clears up my question
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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Want to bone?
with a check box with YES NO MAYBE
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go to a party? - dont spend whole time with her
do something physical like rollerblading (not rollerskating - thats dumb imho) not biking, rockcliming, hiking,
depends on the chick
jus drinkin at ur place or another.
group events-- (numerous)
-Now I used to do this in highschool and worry about "going out" but to a DJ this shouldn't even matter. Don't worry about the labels of dating, and just do it...besides then ur still good to go for other girls too.
-Now i read here once that a guy is never supposed to ask out the girl to be official. I tried it and it makes a girl's interest increasingly apparent. They pretty much ask how come it isn't official and then if you are cool to have a relationship then its golden.
-My advice to you is to date the girl and have a blast with her and any other girls you come across. If she likes you enough, a third date won't seem needy as she will be excited or happy to get a chance to spend time with you. When and if its time to become an official couple she will let you know, i promise...
Heizen
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I ask a girl to hang out, set up a date from there and go from there. You, or rather I, never ask a girl out bluntly like that.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Mr. Debonaire
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thats the funniest **** i've ever seenOriginally posted by SDFUandDie
pass her a note in class with this on it:
Want to bone?
with a check box with YES NO MAYBE
I'm doing it tommorow lol
skinnydart
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"hey, this is skinnydart, what's up... hey are you free this friday?"
"Uh, yeah, I don't have to work this friday"
"I was thinking we could go to that play?"
"Yeah, that would be cool, so what time would you pick me up?"
'Well, it starts at 7:30, but I was thinking we'd go out and get some dinner before, so say I pick you up at your dorm at 5:00?"
It's not that hard, just let it flow naturally.
Seeing as this is my first post, I dont exactly have any credibility to this post. But dude that was the weakest sh!t Ive ever seen!
This is what you put...
"I was thinking"
"What time would you pick me up?"
"Say I pick you up at your dorm at 5?"
K in my opinion it should have gone
"Hey this is Bussey, How you doing? What are you doing Friday?"
"Uh, yeah, I dont have work this friday"
"Im going to this play... why don't you come?"
"Yeah, that would be cool, so what time you pick me up?"
"Well, the play starts at 7:30, but I'll be hungry before, so I'm going to go out to eat, and if you want a ride, you can come with. Cause I'm not making two trips. So I'll be in my car outside of your rez at 5."
Thats how it shoulda gone... You have too much "Catering to her" in the way you handled it. Still worked, but not the best DJ moves...