"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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asking out?

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I just had a question about starting high school relationships.
So, generally it's always like "just ask her out" and ****, my deal is that I think asking someone out is stupid and I'd rather just hook up with a girl and wait until it escalates into a relationship (if i want it to)

but the deal is, there's a girl who's really into me and i think she might be expecting me to ask her out or something. I'm not sure what to do.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Party+good music+alcohol = ample excuse to make out with her.
 
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yeah, but the deal is, i've already done that
my question is how to escalate into a relationship
 
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Tell her you're going to your local mall or something to chill, and that she can tag along. Don't directly 'ask her out', and don't for her 'permission' either.
 
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Hang out with her. It can a date but it doesnt always need to be a "date" activity.

Always keep it sexual though, dont ever let her wonder if you two are "just friends"

It just turns into a relationship after a while.


Be sure to pursue other girls though.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Man, what the fvck. lol

Ask her out if you want to don't if you don't want to don't.

You asking her out is escalting... simple

Your not telling anyone what you want on this thread, don't let anyone on this website tell you what you should want. But tell us what you want.
 
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