"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I just had a question about starting high school relationships.
So, generally it's always like "just ask her out" and ****, my deal is that I think asking someone out is stupid and I'd rather just hook up with a girl and wait until it escalates into a relationship (if i want it to)

but the deal is, there's a girl who's really into me and i think she might be expecting me to ask her out or something. I'm not sure what to do.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Party+good music+alcohol = ample excuse to make out with her.
 
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yeah, but the deal is, i've already done that
my question is how to escalate into a relationship
 
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Tell her you're going to your local mall or something to chill, and that she can tag along. Don't directly 'ask her out', and don't for her 'permission' either.
 
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Hang out with her. It can a date but it doesnt always need to be a "date" activity.

Always keep it sexual though, dont ever let her wonder if you two are "just friends"

It just turns into a relationship after a while.


Be sure to pursue other girls though.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Man, what the fvck. lol

Ask her out if you want to don't if you don't want to don't.

You asking her out is escalting... simple

Your not telling anyone what you want on this thread, don't let anyone on this website tell you what you should want. But tell us what you want.
 
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