asking out?

[other]

I just had a question about starting high school relationships.
So, generally it's always like "just ask her out" and ****, my deal is that I think asking someone out is stupid and I'd rather just hook up with a girl and wait until it escalates into a relationship (if i want it to)

but the deal is, there's a girl who's really into me and i think she might be expecting me to ask her out or something. I'm not sure what to do.

 

[Hughman]

Party+good music+alcohol = ample excuse to make out with her.

 

[other]

yeah, but the deal is, i've already done that
my question is how to escalate into a relationship

 

[Hughman]

Tell her you're going to your local mall or something to chill, and that she can tag along. Don't directly 'ask her out', and don't for her 'permission' either.

 

[Vive Hodie]

Hang out with her. It can a date but it doesnt always need to be a "date" activity.

Always keep it sexual though, dont ever let her wonder if you two are "just friends"

It just turns into a relationship after a while.


Be sure to pursue other girls though.

 

[Analyzeit]

Man, what the fvck. lol

Ask her out if you want to don't if you don't want to don't.

You asking her out is escalting... simple

Your not telling anyone what you want on this thread, don't let anyone on this website tell you what you should want. But tell us what you want.

 

[lalahaha]

http://www.nytimes.com/2008/12/13/opinion/13blow.html