"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I just had a question about starting high school relationships.
So, generally it's always like "just ask her out" and ****, my deal is that I think asking someone out is stupid and I'd rather just hook up with a girl and wait until it escalates into a relationship (if i want it to)

but the deal is, there's a girl who's really into me and i think she might be expecting me to ask her out or something. I'm not sure what to do.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Party+good music+alcohol = ample excuse to make out with her.
 
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yeah, but the deal is, i've already done that
my question is how to escalate into a relationship
 
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Tell her you're going to your local mall or something to chill, and that she can tag along. Don't directly 'ask her out', and don't for her 'permission' either.
 
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Hang out with her. It can a date but it doesnt always need to be a "date" activity.

Always keep it sexual though, dont ever let her wonder if you two are "just friends"

It just turns into a relationship after a while.


Be sure to pursue other girls though.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Man, what the fvck. lol

Ask her out if you want to don't if you don't want to don't.

You asking her out is escalting... simple

Your not telling anyone what you want on this thread, don't let anyone on this website tell you what you should want. But tell us what you want.
 
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