ok guys, i have a problem most guys have sumtime in their life. one day i was at a grocery store buying a newspaper then i saw the cashier n she is jus the cutest girl i have ever seen in my life.so then i started chatting it up wif her n it's like all cool but then she's 3 years older than me n i'm hesitated to ask her out becuz i'm worried she mite say no.what should i do??
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
asking older girls out
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
cablecow15
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ok
1. how old are you
2.if you dont live away from your parents forget it!!
and
3. if you have your own place lie so if youre 18 say your 23
(if you look that old)
1. how old are you
2.if you dont live away from your parents forget it!!
and
3. if you have your own place lie so if youre 18 say your 23
(if you look that old)
JUST GO FOR IT. If you live with your parents and she has a place go there with her. If not you can always take her to meet your parents or vice versa. Just go for it, if you fail, well then you fail. What is the worst that could happen, you can't go in that store when she is there. JUST GO FOR IT.
Memsmerize
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Stop giving bad advice. You dont know anything. Saying youre older than 21 when youre not isnt really the best idea. Lets see if anyone can figure out why.Originally posted by cablecow15
ok
1. how old are you
2.if you dont live away from your parents forget it!!
and
3. if you have your own place lie so if youre 18 say your 23
(if you look that old)
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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age aint nuthin but a number(unless ur r.kelly)...but just go for it
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just be yourself if your 18 be 18. I mean she must like who you are. If she likes who you aren't then she doesn't like you. If you catch my drift.
oakraiderz2
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Bars, drinking, clubs...Originally posted by kegger
becuase if you really get serious with this girl, and she can't figure out why you don't propose and you can't becuase you are only 17. Think about it. Were do you live, Harlem.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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