ok guys, i have a problem most guys have sumtime in their life. one day i was at a grocery store buying a newspaper then i saw the cashier n she is jus the cutest girl i have ever seen in my life.so then i started chatting it up wif her n it's like all cool but then she's 3 years older than me n i'm hesitated to ask her out becuz i'm worried she mite say no.what should i do??
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
cablecow15
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ok
1. how old are you
2.if you dont live away from your parents forget it!!
and
3. if you have your own place lie so if youre 18 say your 23
(if you look that old)
1. how old are you
2.if you dont live away from your parents forget it!!
and
3. if you have your own place lie so if youre 18 say your 23
(if you look that old)
JUST GO FOR IT. If you live with your parents and she has a place go there with her. If not you can always take her to meet your parents or vice versa. Just go for it, if you fail, well then you fail. What is the worst that could happen, you can't go in that store when she is there. JUST GO FOR IT.
Memsmerize
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Stop giving bad advice. You dont know anything. Saying youre older than 21 when youre not isnt really the best idea. Lets see if anyone can figure out why.Originally posted by cablecow15
ok
1. how old are you
2.if you dont live away from your parents forget it!!
and
3. if you have your own place lie so if youre 18 say your 23
(if you look that old)
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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age aint nuthin but a number(unless ur r.kelly)...but just go for it
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just be yourself if your 18 be 18. I mean she must like who you are. If she likes who you aren't then she doesn't like you. If you catch my drift.
oakraiderz2
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Bars, drinking, clubs...Originally posted by kegger
becuase if you really get serious with this girl, and she can't figure out why you don't propose and you can't becuase you are only 17. Think about it. Were do you live, Harlem.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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