ok guys, i have a problem most guys have sumtime in their life. one day i was at a grocery store buying a newspaper then i saw the cashier n she is jus the cutest girl i have ever seen in my life.so then i started chatting it up wif her n it's like all cool but then she's 3 years older than me n i'm hesitated to ask her out becuz i'm worried she mite say no.what should i do??
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
asking older girls out
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
cablecow15
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ok
1. how old are you
2.if you dont live away from your parents forget it!!
and
3. if you have your own place lie so if youre 18 say your 23
(if you look that old)
1. how old are you
2.if you dont live away from your parents forget it!!
and
3. if you have your own place lie so if youre 18 say your 23
(if you look that old)
JUST GO FOR IT. If you live with your parents and she has a place go there with her. If not you can always take her to meet your parents or vice versa. Just go for it, if you fail, well then you fail. What is the worst that could happen, you can't go in that store when she is there. JUST GO FOR IT.
Memsmerize
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Stop giving bad advice. You dont know anything. Saying youre older than 21 when youre not isnt really the best idea. Lets see if anyone can figure out why.Originally posted by cablecow15
ok
1. how old are you
2.if you dont live away from your parents forget it!!
and
3. if you have your own place lie so if youre 18 say your 23
(if you look that old)
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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age aint nuthin but a number(unless ur r.kelly)...but just go for it
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just be yourself if your 18 be 18. I mean she must like who you are. If she likes who you aren't then she doesn't like you. If you catch my drift.
oakraiderz2
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Bars, drinking, clubs...Originally posted by kegger
becuase if you really get serious with this girl, and she can't figure out why you don't propose and you can't becuase you are only 17. Think about it. Were do you live, Harlem.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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