ok guys, i have a problem most guys have sumtime in their life. one day i was at a grocery store buying a newspaper then i saw the cashier n she is jus the cutest girl i have ever seen in my life.so then i started chatting it up wif her n it's like all cool but then she's 3 years older than me n i'm hesitated to ask her out becuz i'm worried she mite say no.what should i do??
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
cablecow15
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ok
1. how old are you
2.if you dont live away from your parents forget it!!
and
3. if you have your own place lie so if youre 18 say your 23
(if you look that old)
1. how old are you
2.if you dont live away from your parents forget it!!
and
3. if you have your own place lie so if youre 18 say your 23
(if you look that old)
JUST GO FOR IT. If you live with your parents and she has a place go there with her. If not you can always take her to meet your parents or vice versa. Just go for it, if you fail, well then you fail. What is the worst that could happen, you can't go in that store when she is there. JUST GO FOR IT.
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Stop giving bad advice. You dont know anything. Saying youre older than 21 when youre not isnt really the best idea. Lets see if anyone can figure out why.Originally posted by cablecow15
ok
1. how old are you
2.if you dont live away from your parents forget it!!
and
3. if you have your own place lie so if youre 18 say your 23
(if you look that old)
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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age aint nuthin but a number(unless ur r.kelly)...but just go for it
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just be yourself if your 18 be 18. I mean she must like who you are. If she likes who you aren't then she doesn't like you. If you catch my drift.
oakraiderz2
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Bars, drinking, clubs...Originally posted by kegger
becuase if you really get serious with this girl, and she can't figure out why you don't propose and you can't becuase you are only 17. Think about it. Were do you live, Harlem.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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