Asking if a girl is a virgin.

[itishe]

I'm going on another date with this girl I've been seeing for a couple weeks and I'm curious if she's a virgin or not. What's the best way to go about asking if we're just hanging out and playing pool? Just be blunt?

 

[Redux]

Go round it. Talk about sex and what she likes and stuff. Sure way to get her to think about you in a sexual way, and to discover that.

 

[itishe]

She's very inexperienced so I don't have much idea how to get her talking about it. Any ideas to bring it up?

 

[whiskerbiskit]

really, no need to beat around the bush.

you: "so hey, how many boyfriends have you had?"

the question is going to get you the answer without coming across as offensive. it may not give you the exact number of guys who've screwed her but in most cases you can get a rough idea. i've never met a girl who doesn't like to talk about her past relationships.

once your friendship is a tiny bit more intimate whether as friends or dating you can be more blunt:

you: "so how many guys total have you slept with?"

just like that.

wb

 

[The_Unit]

she'll let it out, if she really likes you. women love to talk about themselves. my gf told me, and I didnt have to ask. In fact, I dont like to talk about such topics at all.

further reinforces my belief that sometimes the more you want something, the more you dont get it.

 

[Last Man Standing]

Don't ask - you will know in due time! Nowadays hors think they are virgins eventhough they gave 10 *******s and never been penetrated!

 

[itishe]

After hanging out with her we made out in her car, and I kept stroking her nipples outside of her shirt which she didn't mind. When I went inside her shirt she'd pull my hand away. This is the 2nd time she did it. It's pissing me off.

She's moving way too slow.

oh btw never asked, don't really care.

 

[Last Man Standing]

This happened fast - she is NOT a virgin - don't ask!!!

 

[itishe]

I've been on 5 dates with her before this.

 

[Docs]

Seems like the idea here..is Assume she's had Sex?

 

[itishe]

haha I just find it funny how you guys say that you should escalate, and I say that I did... then apparently she's had sex. The logic here escapes me sometimes.

 

[Docs]

lol, I'm honestly asking that question, not enforcing it as a statement.

However, you're getting denied for some reason. Time to poke around...figure out why she's not letting you in.

 

[Jason88]

Why does it matter if she's a virgin?

 

[Mind_Body_Soul]

itishe - I'm only basing this on your user name, but are you middle eastern? Is the girl you're dating middle eastern or religious? It sounds like religious stuff might be getting in the way (my best buddy in college was a paki and he said paki girls are PRUDE), if not, it sounds like she's got ASD going full blast. How old is she? If she is over 20ish, then you definitely either have a religious problem, a sexually abused problem, or a VERY inexperienced (e.g. virgin or close to it) problem.

Good luck.

 

[itishe]

She's 16 or 17, and I'm the same age. I know she's had one boyfriend her life, and they didn't do a thing together sexually besides kiss.

I live in the US.

I think she just has her ASD going... which doesn't surprise me seeing she meets the following criteria:

-I'm almost willing to bet my penis on the fact she's a virgin
-Alot of her friends are prudes. You know the types of girls that've had 0-3 boyfriends and each time they never did anything too sexual (at most maybe given a handjob). So I'm sure she feels she'll be the "***** outcast" if she does anything.
-She may be afraid I'm only in it for sex so she wants to see if I'll wait around (she knows I've banged one of her friends who happened to be my ex, and she knows about how I hooked up with two of her other friends at a party so she knows I'm not a saint).

Her tits are massive and I know sometimes girls are self-concious about having large tits (doesn't make sense to me either). She'll let me grope her ass and feel her tits up outside of her shirt but when I go to move inside of it, I get pulled away.

P.S. Her nipples were rock hard so I know I was turning her on. Next time I make out with her I won't even attempt to go inside of her shirt. Perhaps this will leave her guessing. She's dumb as a rock too if that counts for anything.

 

[diplomatic_lies]

"Hey are you a virgin?"

 

[Nighthawk]

Only AFCs care.

 

[( . )( . )]

Only AFCs care.

And only 16 replies for someone to state the obvious.

How bout I answer for the poor b!tch, save some insecure turkey ruining her day.

NO!! and before you ask the next question.. MORE THAN YOU!! Now move on chump and show me what else you got before I dump your ass like yesterdays news.

edit: mind you your going to get a totally different answer, one specifically designed for guys like you but anyway...



" Errr ..are you a virgin? uhuh uhuhh :crazy: ". lol what a knob, I honestly feel sorry for our chicks more and more each day.

 

[Redux]

She'll let me grope her ass and feel her tits up outside of her shirt but when I go to move inside of it, I get pulled away.

You are doing something wrong.

 

[KoalaKing]

Only AFCs care.

Why post this sarcastic remark, she may have only fvcked one guy who had a massive d!ck, she may have an STD, plus he may not want to fvck a slvt, think before you write this rubbish.