"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Asking if a girl is a virgin.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
whiskerbiskit
Don Juan
you: "so hey, how many boyfriends have you had?"
the question is going to get you the answer without coming across as offensive. it may not give you the exact number of guys who've screwed her but in most cases you can get a rough idea. i've never met a girl who doesn't like to talk about her past relationships.
once your friendship is a tiny bit more intimate whether as friends or dating you can be more blunt:
you: "so how many guys total have you slept with?"
just like that.
wb
The_Unit
Don Juan
further reinforces my belief that sometimes the more you want something, the more you dont get it.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Last Man Standing
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She's moving way too slow.
oh btw never asked, don't really care.
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Docs
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Docs
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However, you're getting denied for some reason. Time to poke around...figure out why she's not letting you in.
Mind_Body_Soul
Senior Don Juan
Good luck.
I live in the US.
I think she just has her ASD going... which doesn't surprise me seeing she meets the following criteria:
-I'm almost willing to bet my penis on the fact she's a virgin
-Alot of her friends are prudes. You know the types of girls that've had 0-3 boyfriends and each time they never did anything too sexual (at most maybe given a handjob). So I'm sure she feels she'll be the "***** outcast" if she does anything.
-She may be afraid I'm only in it for sex so she wants to see if I'll wait around (she knows I've banged one of her friends who happened to be my ex, and she knows about how I hooked up with two of her other friends at a party so she knows I'm not a saint).
Her tits are massive and I know sometimes girls are self-concious about having large tits (doesn't make sense to me either). She'll let me grope her ass and feel her tits up outside of her shirt but when I go to move inside of it, I get pulled away.
P.S. Her nipples were rock hard so I know I was turning her on. Next time I make out with her I won't even attempt to go inside of her shirt. Perhaps this will leave her guessing. She's dumb as a rock too if that counts for anything.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
diplomatic_lies
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Nighthawk said:
And only 16 replies for someone to state the obvious.How bout I answer for the poor b!tch, save some insecure turkey ruining her day.
NO!! and before you ask the next question.. MORE THAN YOU!! Now move on chump and show me what else you got before I dump your ass like yesterdays news.
edit: mind you your going to get a totally different answer, one specifically designed for guys like you but anyway...
" Errr ..are you a virgin? uhuh uhuhh :crazy: ". lol what a knob, I honestly feel sorry for our chicks more and more each day.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.