asking a girl if she's still in contact with her ex

[Fela Kuti]

Hello,

Is it ever OK to ask whether a girl you're dating is still in contact with her ex? Say, they broke up only a few months ago and you want to make sure she has completely severed the ties and recovered from the breakup.

 

[GS750]

I don't think I'd ask...trust your gut and pay attention. If she is still in regular contact with him, then you know you can't take her seriously.

 

[dustmuffin]

Don't ask, Don't get attached and just have fun. If something comes up next her.

 

[RangerMIke]

No it's never okay to ask about her dating past... it makes you look weak.

 

[OlympicTim]

Why does it matter? If shes into you it won't matter if she still talks to her ex.

 

[pyros]

I say its ok to ask.

If she is in contact she will eventually tell you or you will get the feeling anyway.