"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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asking a girl if she's still in contact with her ex

Fela Kuti

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Hello,

Is it ever OK to ask whether a girl you're dating is still in contact with her ex? Say, they broke up only a few months ago and you want to make sure she has completely severed the ties and recovered from the breakup.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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GS750

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I don't think I'd ask...trust your gut and pay attention. If she is still in regular contact with him, then you know you can't take her seriously.
 

dustmuffin

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Don't ask, Don't get attached and just have fun. If something comes up next her.
 

OlympicTim

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Why does it matter? If shes into you it won't matter if she still talks to her ex.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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pyros

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I say its ok to ask.

If she is in contact she will eventually tell you or you will get the feeling anyway.
 
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