"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Asked to move in ALREADY!

brenbaus

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Originally posted by jprjrjr
First he blows his wad in some hot black chicks face, then his girlfriend of a week asks him to move in? They way he describes these things is outlandish.

You're a moron dude...

You look so good in white...



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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jprjrjr

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Originally posted by brenbaus
You look so good in white...



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:woo: Lets call him "Dirk Diggler"
 

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You going to answer my question? whats so unbelivable about cu*mming on a girls face? have'nt you ever done it?

Ninja out
 

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
You going to answer my question? whats so unbelivable about cu*mming on a girls face? have'nt you ever done it?

Ninja out
to awnser you,

dont move in with her (at least not for a long while)

nothing

many times

just cracks me up what you said!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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theres always those 5 out 100 who call them selves smart and accuse people of lying.

Ninja out
 

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
You going to answer my question? whats so unbelivable about cu*mming on a girls face? have'nt you ever done it?

Ninja out
It's not the "cumming on her face" part that I don't believe. It's her blowing up and calling you a racist for asking her if she looks good in white.

That's hilarious.
 

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I never accused anyone of lying, I just thought it was funny you said she looks good in cumm,and then she throw your ass out. thats all
 

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I slept over her place tonight and were sitting on the couch watching Charlie and the chocolate factory with Johnny Depp great movie and im like:
Has anyone noticed that Charlie and the chocolate factory is still in the cinemas (for Australia where blackitalian says he's based anyway)?

Not that i'm questioning the validity of your story, but it means one of two things:

1) you're full of ****
2) you download illegal movies off the net haha
 

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NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER move in with a girl you just started dating. I lived with my last gf who I was dating for a while and it ended our relationship REAL QUICK! A big part of making a relationship work is having your own time and keeping it that way. Lots of so called "DJ's" on these boards get a girl and then quickly spend more and more time with her until its boring. If you stick to a script and only spend a certain amount of days hanging out with your girl in a week it will make the relationship last, you'll appreciate the time you guys spend together more and it will help you learn more about yourself.

Don't do it, I know it sounds good but look at the long term karate kid.



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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There’s actually this guy that use to come around my old work with a duffle bag full of illegal DVDs selling them for $10 each. I valued his services so I got his number now whenever a new movie hits the cinemas I call him up and go get it.

Some of them aren’t the best quality (cam jobs) but it’s all good.

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Originally posted by brenbaus
I never accused anyone of lying, I just thought it was funny you said she looks good in cumm,and then she throw your ass out. thats all
Relax man i wasnt talkign about you.

Ninja out
 
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