"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Asked out by an AFC girl...uggh!

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Anyway the first day of class she hit on me and exchanged #'s. Nothing ever happened of it, we were just classmates.
Good i thought.

Lately i've been becoming more friendly with her as i have with every other person in class since it's nearing the end of a semester. She's been pretty friendly too.

i dont know wth happened today, but i could swear i saw her right eye twitch at me while she was talking or it was some weird attempt at winking at me.

And after class, we were talking about her work. Then she brought up something about going for coffee...i was like "coffee? i like alcohol better though." then she even asked my friend to join too. my friend said no of course. Then my friend goes "why didnt you go she's a girl..!"

But regardless when she left i said "bye (name)" but she didnt reply...oh well.

It's interesting to reject girls instead of being the one to be rejected... And the funny thing is, all this time i thought she was interested in the guy she usually walks with at the end of class.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Are you having so much sex that you don't have time to have coffee with this girl? Is she hot? What's wrong with her?
 

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for a guy complaining not to long ago that there was no good girls out there and then this happens. I smell something fishy here.

Either you lied about that or you were thick headed moron who had a golden opportunity fall through your fingers (don't worry ;) I've had those happen t me as well). If you learn to understand attraction then you won't ever have this problem.

Why didn't you ask her out? Guess what guys, most girls only talk to you if they are interested in going out with you! Happens to me all the time ! ! !

Unless they are ugly or fat or something like that. Most normal girls will approach nowadays if you tickle their fancy. If you don't ask them out or something then they won't give you the time of day. I'm in an LDLTR but I had so many chances to hook up that it wasn't even funny.

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Gonzalo

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What's AFC about her...?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The original post is just a subtle attempt at bragging, move on people.
 

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So lemme get this straight.

She initiated number exchange?

She asked you out for coffee?

that my friend is not being AFC, as a chick that's showing interest who is waiting for you to take the hint.

Unless this chick is a ugly broad or *****, in which either case you don't want i'd suggest the AFC here is you.

Oh wait you're waiting for a chick to walk up to you grab your **** and telling you to **** her brains out right there, good luck not catching a STD from that one.
 
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