"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Asked out by an AFC girl...uggh!

solo1

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Anyway the first day of class she hit on me and exchanged #'s. Nothing ever happened of it, we were just classmates.
Good i thought.

Lately i've been becoming more friendly with her as i have with every other person in class since it's nearing the end of a semester. She's been pretty friendly too.

i dont know wth happened today, but i could swear i saw her right eye twitch at me while she was talking or it was some weird attempt at winking at me.

And after class, we were talking about her work. Then she brought up something about going for coffee...i was like "coffee? i like alcohol better though." then she even asked my friend to join too. my friend said no of course. Then my friend goes "why didnt you go she's a girl..!"

But regardless when she left i said "bye (name)" but she didnt reply...oh well.

It's interesting to reject girls instead of being the one to be rejected... And the funny thing is, all this time i thought she was interested in the guy she usually walks with at the end of class.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Are you having so much sex that you don't have time to have coffee with this girl? Is she hot? What's wrong with her?
 

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for a guy complaining not to long ago that there was no good girls out there and then this happens. I smell something fishy here.

Either you lied about that or you were thick headed moron who had a golden opportunity fall through your fingers (don't worry ;) I've had those happen t me as well). If you learn to understand attraction then you won't ever have this problem.

Why didn't you ask her out? Guess what guys, most girls only talk to you if they are interested in going out with you! Happens to me all the time ! ! !

Unless they are ugly or fat or something like that. Most normal girls will approach nowadays if you tickle their fancy. If you don't ask them out or something then they won't give you the time of day. I'm in an LDLTR but I had so many chances to hook up that it wasn't even funny.

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Gonzalo

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What's AFC about her...?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The original post is just a subtle attempt at bragging, move on people.
 

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So lemme get this straight.

She initiated number exchange?

She asked you out for coffee?

that my friend is not being AFC, as a chick that's showing interest who is waiting for you to take the hint.

Unless this chick is a ugly broad or *****, in which either case you don't want i'd suggest the AFC here is you.

Oh wait you're waiting for a chick to walk up to you grab your **** and telling you to **** her brains out right there, good luck not catching a STD from that one.
 
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