"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Asked out by an AFC girl...uggh!

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Anyway the first day of class she hit on me and exchanged #'s. Nothing ever happened of it, we were just classmates.
Good i thought.

Lately i've been becoming more friendly with her as i have with every other person in class since it's nearing the end of a semester. She's been pretty friendly too.

i dont know wth happened today, but i could swear i saw her right eye twitch at me while she was talking or it was some weird attempt at winking at me.

And after class, we were talking about her work. Then she brought up something about going for coffee...i was like "coffee? i like alcohol better though." then she even asked my friend to join too. my friend said no of course. Then my friend goes "why didnt you go she's a girl..!"

But regardless when she left i said "bye (name)" but she didnt reply...oh well.

It's interesting to reject girls instead of being the one to be rejected... And the funny thing is, all this time i thought she was interested in the guy she usually walks with at the end of class.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Are you having so much sex that you don't have time to have coffee with this girl? Is she hot? What's wrong with her?
 
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for a guy complaining not to long ago that there was no good girls out there and then this happens. I smell something fishy here.

Either you lied about that or you were thick headed moron who had a golden opportunity fall through your fingers (don't worry ;) I've had those happen t me as well). If you learn to understand attraction then you won't ever have this problem.

Why didn't you ask her out? Guess what guys, most girls only talk to you if they are interested in going out with you! Happens to me all the time ! ! !

Unless they are ugly or fat or something like that. Most normal girls will approach nowadays if you tickle their fancy. If you don't ask them out or something then they won't give you the time of day. I'm in an LDLTR but I had so many chances to hook up that it wasn't even funny.

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What's AFC about her...?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The original post is just a subtle attempt at bragging, move on people.
 
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So lemme get this straight.

She initiated number exchange?

She asked you out for coffee?

that my friend is not being AFC, as a chick that's showing interest who is waiting for you to take the hint.

Unless this chick is a ugly broad or *****, in which either case you don't want i'd suggest the AFC here is you.

Oh wait you're waiting for a chick to walk up to you grab your **** and telling you to **** her brains out right there, good luck not catching a STD from that one.
 
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