Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Asked out by an AFC girl...uggh!

solo1

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Anyway the first day of class she hit on me and exchanged #'s. Nothing ever happened of it, we were just classmates.
Good i thought.

Lately i've been becoming more friendly with her as i have with every other person in class since it's nearing the end of a semester. She's been pretty friendly too.

i dont know wth happened today, but i could swear i saw her right eye twitch at me while she was talking or it was some weird attempt at winking at me.

And after class, we were talking about her work. Then she brought up something about going for coffee...i was like "coffee? i like alcohol better though." then she even asked my friend to join too. my friend said no of course. Then my friend goes "why didnt you go she's a girl..!"

But regardless when she left i said "bye (name)" but she didnt reply...oh well.

It's interesting to reject girls instead of being the one to be rejected... And the funny thing is, all this time i thought she was interested in the guy she usually walks with at the end of class.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Are you having so much sex that you don't have time to have coffee with this girl? Is she hot? What's wrong with her?
 

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for a guy complaining not to long ago that there was no good girls out there and then this happens. I smell something fishy here.

Either you lied about that or you were thick headed moron who had a golden opportunity fall through your fingers (don't worry ;) I've had those happen t me as well). If you learn to understand attraction then you won't ever have this problem.

Why didn't you ask her out? Guess what guys, most girls only talk to you if they are interested in going out with you! Happens to me all the time ! ! !

Unless they are ugly or fat or something like that. Most normal girls will approach nowadays if you tickle their fancy. If you don't ask them out or something then they won't give you the time of day. I'm in an LDLTR but I had so many chances to hook up that it wasn't even funny.

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What's AFC about her...?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The original post is just a subtle attempt at bragging, move on people.
 

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So lemme get this straight.

She initiated number exchange?

She asked you out for coffee?

that my friend is not being AFC, as a chick that's showing interest who is waiting for you to take the hint.

Unless this chick is a ugly broad or *****, in which either case you don't want i'd suggest the AFC here is you.

Oh wait you're waiting for a chick to walk up to you grab your **** and telling you to **** her brains out right there, good luck not catching a STD from that one.
 
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