"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Asked out by an AFC girl...uggh!

solo1

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Anyway the first day of class she hit on me and exchanged #'s. Nothing ever happened of it, we were just classmates.
Good i thought.

Lately i've been becoming more friendly with her as i have with every other person in class since it's nearing the end of a semester. She's been pretty friendly too.

i dont know wth happened today, but i could swear i saw her right eye twitch at me while she was talking or it was some weird attempt at winking at me.

And after class, we were talking about her work. Then she brought up something about going for coffee...i was like "coffee? i like alcohol better though." then she even asked my friend to join too. my friend said no of course. Then my friend goes "why didnt you go she's a girl..!"

But regardless when she left i said "bye (name)" but she didnt reply...oh well.

It's interesting to reject girls instead of being the one to be rejected... And the funny thing is, all this time i thought she was interested in the guy she usually walks with at the end of class.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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seanchai

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Are you having so much sex that you don't have time to have coffee with this girl? Is she hot? What's wrong with her?
 

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for a guy complaining not to long ago that there was no good girls out there and then this happens. I smell something fishy here.

Either you lied about that or you were thick headed moron who had a golden opportunity fall through your fingers (don't worry ;) I've had those happen t me as well). If you learn to understand attraction then you won't ever have this problem.

Why didn't you ask her out? Guess what guys, most girls only talk to you if they are interested in going out with you! Happens to me all the time ! ! !

Unless they are ugly or fat or something like that. Most normal girls will approach nowadays if you tickle their fancy. If you don't ask them out or something then they won't give you the time of day. I'm in an LDLTR but I had so many chances to hook up that it wasn't even funny.

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Gonzalo

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What's AFC about her...?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The original post is just a subtle attempt at bragging, move on people.
 

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So lemme get this straight.

She initiated number exchange?

She asked you out for coffee?

that my friend is not being AFC, as a chick that's showing interest who is waiting for you to take the hint.

Unless this chick is a ugly broad or *****, in which either case you don't want i'd suggest the AFC here is you.

Oh wait you're waiting for a chick to walk up to you grab your **** and telling you to **** her brains out right there, good luck not catching a STD from that one.
 
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