"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Asked 29 year old hottie what she looks for in a man

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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God_of_getting_layed

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I keep hearing "oh this is such a clieche thing for her to say, it means nothing" and I also here "women will say they want one kind of man, then date a different kind of man". here are my responses:

men say such cliche things as "I want a girl whos hot blah blah etc." since its cliche, does this mean this statement means nothing and is unrepresentative of what we really want? of course not! moral of the story: just becuase a description of an ideal partner is cliche doesnt mean its a meaningless statement, in fact the opposite is likely to be the case; its cliche becuase its true.

Now for the second one. You could argue here that women say one thing, and then date another as a tactic to discredit that she likes tall handsom men, however, all available evidence to date on what women are actually doing and how theyre reacting to certain men strongly suggest they do like tall handsom men, ie looks matter, and this is one example where what she said is likely to be consistent with what she is actually doing.
 

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Jayer said:
tall, dark, handsome, creative, funny, ambitious, honest, likes to travel, sexy, romantic, intellectual, spontaneous, fresh.


What do you all think?
If women knew what they were talking about they would be men.

$100 says the last guy she ****ed had none of these qualities.
 

DJVladdy

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traffic said:
If women knew what they were talking about they would be men.

$100 says the last guy she ****ed had none of these qualities.

Lol no way
Because if a guy who is the opposite of her description got that revered "29 year old hottie"... than what's this whole talk that we all have about "self-improvement"?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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mahon83050 said:
WHAT IS HPV?
hpv is a virus that causes genital warts, but it also can cause cervical cancer in women.
there is now a series of shots that they are asking parents to take their daughters to get at 10-20 yrs of age to prevent it.
 
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