"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Asked 29 year old hottie what she looks for in a man

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THATS WHAT SHE SAYS SHE WANTS NOT DESIRES OR NEEDS.........OR FOR THAT MATTER WILL ENDS UP WITH.

WOMEN SAY ONE THING AND MEAN ANOTHER.............I just want a nice guy.........yA but its the bad boy who is doing her doggy style.

I want a guy to treat me like a lady-ya but this stuff is not indicative of her panties dropping to the floor.

I want to hold hands, go for a nice walk, and a romantic dinner------BORING........all tests from a woman.


the statement she gave WAS NOTHIGN MORE THAN A TEST.......and guess what......YOU FAILED.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lol blusher like I said lay off the shrooms. Quote me where I even said half of what you are claiming and then maybe I won't think you are on drugs.

I guess when you live in Amsterdam and are used to paying for ***** you don't think clearly. No worries my friend.
 

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WOW she put zero thought into the question

tall, dark, handsome, creative, funny, ambitious, honest, likes to travel, sexy, romantic, intellectual, spontaneous, fresh.

Thats what any girl would say if she answered the question without really thinking hard about it


tall, dark, handsome...LOL
 

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Jayer said:
Gangster I told her what you said and this was her respose word for word


"love, so much of it. honesty, truth, support in his career, helping him grow as a person, care about his happiness, creativity, spontaneity, amazing sex. openness, willingness to try new things, explore together, grow together and above all respect. "



I think I'll have a little more dialouge with her to see what happens and then I'll pm you her page info. I hope that you can keep us posted of your trials and tribulations with this subject. If/when you strike out I'll open it up to the board to try.


But what do you think about her last comment? Sounds like marriage material to me :)
If/when I strike out? Im not even bothering with attempting anything with her. I am not too smithen by her as you are. I am not too much of a my space kind of guy. Send me the link, I am curious to see how hot she is.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Blusher said:
Two pages to dissert on women in general based on a random question to a female colleague... You guys are a bunch of pathetic losers, get a life for f**k's sake.

She said she wants a good-looking, clever and fun guy. What's wrong with that? Just like any guy on this board would love to have a pretty, smart girl that's good in bed right?

Unfortunately, judging by your posts, it's unlikely to happen anytime soon.

She's 29? And? Do you truly believe that each and every 29 year old single woman gets involved in threesomes and whatnot. Get real and stop the stupid generalizations based on what you see in porn flicks.

bunch of morons.
What toilet did you pop out of? Flush yourself back, you as$wipe!
 

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hey sorry I havent been on in a while.

Gangster I sent you her profile link. Curious to her your opinion. Would you not consider her hot? I'd say she's like 8.
 

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So anyway I came clean and asked her point blank
coming clean would have been asking her out, not asking her what she liked knowing what she is going to say

in the history of women, I've never heard a woman say "short, pale, unclean.."
 

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COD said:
THATS WHAT SHE SAYS SHE WANTS NOT DESIRES OR NEEDS.........OR FOR THAT MATTER WILL ENDS UP WITH.

WOMEN SAY ONE THING AND MEAN ANOTHER.............I just want a nice guy.........yA but its the bad boy who is doing her doggy style.

I want a guy to treat me like a lady-ya but this stuff is not indicative of her panties dropping to the floor.

I want to hold hands, go for a nice walk, and a romantic dinner------BORING........all tests from a woman.


the statement she gave WAS NOTHIGN MORE THAN A TEST.......and guess what......YOU FAILED.
Blunt, but not like James Blunt I hasten to add. It's harsh, but I have to agree with this chap's comment.
She's also on MySpace. Any girl on these type of things likes attention from men, or indeed anyone! ( unless, perhaps, they set their profile to 'private'...).
:yes:
 

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Get in there fast and deliver some c0cky and funny on this chick. You blokes have got to learn to read the Tips pages.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Serialized3 said:
Ummm, I had a conversation with one of my good female friends, a hot chick who has her head on straighter than any woman I've ever met and most guys as well.

I asked her if size really mattered.

Her response?

"I like a guy with a big c0ck. I like the feeling of being 'filled-up'. It isn't a requirement, but it's definiately a nice thing to have."

So ... make of that what you will. I think it matters about as much as we like big tits or a tight ass. Not necessarily required, but they're a big plus. (Well, a nice ass/thighs is a requirement for Ser3 ;))
Hasn't Sylvester Stallone got a small c0ck, hot babes are aware of this and they still fvck him.
Being a guy myself I know that it is complete rubbish that hot babes with larger breasts are more attractive, the girls face is much more important than her breasts thighs or any other part of her body. :down:
 

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HaremMasterThomas said:
Hasn't Sylvester Stallone got a small c0ck, hot babes are aware of this and they still fvck him.
Being a guy myself I know that it is complete rubbish that hot babes with larger breasts are more attractive, the girls face is much more important than her breasts thighs or any other part of her body. :down:
Are hot babes really aware of this???

I understand what you're saying though. Looks are subjective. We all have different preferences. Some of like boobs more then ass or face more then anything. It all depends on the person. Thats why I think it is pointless to discuss looks at all.

But I don't naive about women preferring men with big c0cks. There are women that will be INSTINCTIVELY be attracted to a long dongs(lol). Some just perceive a man with a bigger c0ck as more masculine...better in bed...and a HUGE turn on. :box:
 
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Are hot babes really aware of this???

I understand what you're saying though. Looks are subjective. We all have different preferences. Some of like boobs more then ass or face more then anything. It all depends on the person. Thats why I think it is pointless to discuss looks at all.

But I don't naive about women preferring men with big c0cks. There are women that will be INSTINCTIVELY be attracted to a long dongs(lol). Some just perceive a man with a bigger c0ck as more masculine...better in bed...and a HUGE turn on. :box:
I have asked many hot babes about the size of guys c0cks and the answers have been different.
There are many powerfully built guys who don't have big c0cks, also I know a guy who has a small c0ck who is always hitting on and fvcking many hot babes, one of the hot babes he later fvcked even saw him naked beforehand told him he wasn't impressive yet he still managed to fvck her after that and she was the type of girl who attracted most of the guys.
I have heard also that it is better to have a short thick c0ck than a long skinny one.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jayer said:
I met this girl through work about a year ago. We interacted due to work briefly but she doesn't remember who I am. I found her on myspace and started hitting on her. She obviously ignored me and as per her page I could see several guys are supplicating to her (she is hot I don't blame them) This girl is like an 8.5 +, very smart and very career oriented.

So anyway I came clean and asked her point blank what she looked for in a guy and here is exactly what she said:

tall, dark, handsome, creative, funny, ambitious, honest, likes to travel, sexy, romantic, intellectual, spontaneous, fresh.


What do you all think?
I wouldn't read anything into her response as it's obviously a superficial cosmo-clone of a response.

Plus when you ask a girl what she looks for in a guy you are asking her to (hypothetically) assume a dominant position. And since women are attracted to the opposite of that, she can't give you a realistic answer.
 

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Jayer said:
So anyway I came clean and asked her point blank what she looked for in a guy and here is exactly what she said:

tall, dark, handsome, creative, funny, ambitious, honest, likes to travel, sexy, romantic, intellectual, spontaneous, fresh.


What do you all think?
I think I could cut & paste this into any and every "what I'm looking for in a guy" description for any online dating profile of any woman of any age and they'd never know it'd been replaced.

Remember young DJ, it's what they DO, not what they say. Judge a person by the questions they ask, not the answers they give.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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